I'm a worry wart!

Started by Punkyhermy4 pages

Tell them the truth. If they are the kind of parents who are apparently involved or want to be involved in what their kid does, they ought to know. You owe them that much. And why'd you be resorting to sneaking behind their backs and lying to their faces if it was something that was totally okay for you to indulge in?! 😕 🙄

There's no right way to do a potentially wrong thing. Your a teenager once but newsflash:You only really need one chance to mess up big.

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Originally posted by Kelly_LS
I know it's lying and disrespectful but you're only a teenager once, lol. This is something I've been looking forward to and wanting for a really long time and now that the chance (hopefully) has come, I'd like to take it and hang onto it.

Yeah you're only a teenager once but that doesnt make it ok for you to lie to and disrespect your parents. I've was a teenager too but I honestly was not disrespectful to my parents. I did lie about things every once and a while but it didnt get me anywhere and it just got me into more trouble. I think, like PH said, ask them about it and if she says no theres nothing you can do about it. Don't lie to them and tell em you're gonna be somewhere else. If something does happen and you're somewhere other than where you said you were gonna be its just gonna make it 10 times worse for you.

Originally posted by Punkyhermy
Tell them the truth. If they are the kind of parents who are apparently involved or want to be involved in what their kid does, they ought to know. You owe them that much. And why'd you be resorting to sneaking behind their backs and lying to their faces if it was something that was totally okay for you to indulge in?! 😕 🙄

There's no right way to do a potentially wrong thing. Your a teenager once but newsflash:You only really need one chance to mess up big.


Tell them the truth? If I even just mentioned something along the lines of this then I'd get my ass in deep.
Originally posted by BlackSunshine
Yeah you're only a teenager once but that doesnt make it ok for you to lie to and disrespect your parents. I've was a teenager too but I honestly was not disrespectful to my parents. I did lie about things every once and a while but it didnt get me anywhere and it just got me into more trouble. I think, like PH said, ask them about it and if she says no theres nothing you can do about it. Don't lie to them and tell em you're gonna be somewhere else. If something does happen and you're somewhere other than where you said you were gonna be its just gonna make it 10 times worse for you.

Well, I'm willing to take that risk. Nothing has happened before when I've been with Zach and I know there's always that chance but it's not a certainty. I rarely ever lie to them anyway. I'll take full responsibility if something happens, and I doubt it will. I just want to spend the night with the person I most care about.

Zach is your Boyfriend?

People should stop making their lives to be like Sit-Coms....for their own sake obviously, I enjoy it.

Originally posted by Ana P
Zach is your Boyfriend?

No.
Originally posted by Bardock42
People should stop making their lives to be like Sit-Coms....for their own sake obviously, I enjoy it.

Explain how I am doing so. I'm just worried about getting caught while going somewhere with Zach...not a ****ing crisis.

Originally posted by Kelly_LS
No.

Explain how I am doing so. I'm just worried about getting caught while going somewhere with Zach...not a ****ing crisis.

Yes, okay. It is a typical sit-com teenager situation though. Maybe you got sucked into it. But I doubt it. Just be honest.

Originally posted by BlackSunshine
o ok well I didnt know he was 18. Honestly, thats something you really shouldnt hide from your mom. It is kinda disrespectful to lie about something like that. Because if she does find out shes not gonna trust you anymore and shes not gonna let you go anywhere with anybody. Think about it seriously, what if something happened and she didnt know where you were?
I agree.
Originally posted by FoxMeister
Shouldnt this be in the "I Dont Really Give a Damn" Forum because here it isnt really essential and isnt at all that darn interesting so next time you want to make people suffer your long life story tell your dog or some animal that doesnt really understand you and still has a defence mecanism if and when they get so darn bored with your voice droning on about something that didnt even HAPPEN or if it did.... isnt really an intersesting chapter in your sad sad life

PS. Stop making threads

I also agree.

Originally posted by Bardock42
Yes, okay. It is a typical sit-com teenager situation though. Maybe you got sucked into it. But I doubt it. Just be honest.

"....Hi Mom. Mind if I go stay at a hotel room with Zach Friday?"
*Dad murders me and then Mom revives me, and then murders me herself*

Originally posted by Kelly_LS
"....Hi Mom. Mind if I go stay at a hotel room with Zach Friday?"
*Dad murders me and then Mom revives me, and then murders me herself*

Oh right. Then...wait..what about not staying in a Hotel room with Zach on friday?

You remind me of Boy Meets World, or Malcolm in the Middle. Where Malcolm and Resse will do something and then try to cover it up, but their parents always find out, and then they get grounded, and like two episodes later everyone forgets about it. Except in your case when they find out they won't forget about it.

Originally posted by Kelly_LS
No.

Who is he?

I don't mean to be in all your business 😛

You don't have to answer 😉

Save yourself the money and time, nail each other in the back of a car and call it a night.

Save money and piece of mind.

Originally posted by Naz
You remind me of Boy Meets World, or Malcolm in the Middle. Where Malcolm and Resse will do something and then try to cover it up, but their parents always find out, and then they get grounded, and like two episodes later everyone forgets about it. Except in your case when they find out they won't forget about it.

I like Malcolm in the Middle.

Originally posted by Soleran
Save yourself the money and time, nail each other in the back of a car and call it a night.

Save money and piece of mind.

Good call.

Originally posted by Bardock42
Oh right. Then...wait..what about not staying in a Hotel room with Zach on friday?

What about STAYING in a hotel next Friday with Zach?
Originally posted by Naz
You remind me of Boy Meets World, or Malcolm in the Middle. Where Malcolm and Resse will do something and then try to cover it up, but their parents always find out, and then they get grounded, and like two episodes later everyone forgets about it. Except in your case when they find out they won't forget about it.

But...it's not a certainty that we'll get caught. I've done plenty of things without my parents knowing. CRAZY things!
Originally posted by Ana P
Who is he?

I don't mean to be in all your business 😛

You don't have to answer 😉


The guy that I care for more than anything and wish I could have, lol.
Originally posted by Soleran
Save yourself the money and time, nail each other in the back of a car and call it a night.

Save money and piece of mind.


Doesn't cost me anything, and if it helps, Zach's loaded. And that doesn't sound like a half bad idea but every time he and I are out together my gay curfew is 12:00. If we were to do this, we could cuddle, who the hell doesn't like to cuddle and sleep side by side the whole night?

Originally posted by Kelly_LS
What about STAYING in a hotel next Friday with Zach?

With being dishonest?

You know the options what do you need help with from people on KMC?

Good options:

- Ask your parents for permission. Get your arguments straight.
- Do not go and do something else fun.

Bad options:

- Lie to your parents and go out to stay in a Hotel with Zach

Originally posted by Bardock42
With being dishonest?

You know the options what do you need help with from people on KMC?

Good options:

- Ask your parents for permission. Get your arguments straight.
- Do not go and do something else fun.

Bad options:

- Lie to your parents and go out to stay in a Hotel with Zach


Can you tell me that you've never done something big before?

Originally posted by Kelly_LS
If we were to do this, we could cuddle, who the hell doesn't like to cuddle and sleep side by side the whole night?

I don't!

The only real benefit to the hotel that I see is easy morning sex, other then that it's just a pain in the ass.

Like I said you're better off to just get laid in the back of the car rather then worry about being grounded and losing out on sex for a few weeks because of the ordeal.

Originally posted by Kelly_LS
Can you tell me that you've never done something big before?

Depends. What do you define as something big? Something that I did knowingly against my parents will to get pleasure while it being absolutely trivial? Hmm, yeah, sure I did lie to my parents. Sometimes. I didn't tell them I'd be somewhere else though to do something they would be opposed to. IT was small things, things that did not inflict with their duty to keep me secure.