Originally posted by Ana P
Does he know you like him? Doesn't sound like he's too much interested in you if you are not in a relationship togather and you're going to a Hotel with him...How long have you two known each other?
How does him going with her to a Hotel room somehow not sound like he's interested?
Originally posted by Bardock42
With being dishonest?You know the options what do you need help with from people on KMC?
Good options:
- Ask your parents for permission. Get your arguments straight.
- Do not go and do something else fun.Bad options:
- Lie to your parents and go out to stay in a Hotel with Zach
I agree.
You KNOW full well you are doing something sketchy. THAT is the problem here. Why is doing the right thing so hard for you apparently? Do you have to spend the night with this guy? WHAT happens if you don't? 😕
Originally posted by Ana P
Well not marriage but she said she really really really likes him and he probably doesn't feel the same way.So...
I guess it is a High School thing and it's all for "FUN" and such. Something to remember 10 years from now 😄
Why do you think that? He goes out with her a lot apparently. And want s to have sex with her. I don't see an implication wither way. For all I know he might be madly in love with her but shy.
Originally posted by Soleran
I don't!The only real benefit to the hotel that I see is easy morning sex, other then that it's just a pain in the ass.
Like I said you're better off to just get laid in the back of the car rather then worry about being grounded and losing out on sex for a few weeks because of the ordeal.
Originally posted by Bardock42Depends. What do you define as something big? Something that I did knowingly against my parents will to get pleasure while it being absolutely trivial? Hmm, yeah, sure I did lie to my parents. Sometimes. I didn't tell them I'd be somewhere else though to do something they would be opposed to. IT was small things, things that did not inflict with their duty to keep me secure.
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Yep, I told him. I've known him since 6th grade. We just started talking again near the beginning of this school year.
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✅ Like every other man.
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Nothing really happens if I don't stay the night with him. I just have really wishful thinking.
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Oh lord no, my dear. He's a ladies man, is what the problem is. He is in no way shy.
WTF is wrong with these quickquotes?
Originally posted by Kelly_LSIt could be. What does this have to do with security though?
Oh lord no, my dear. He's a ladies man, is what the problem is. He is in no way shy.
They do not know where you are. That has a lot to do with security. It is idiotic to try to lie to your parents about such things.
Well, maybe he really is not into you then.
Oh and quickquotes only work on the page the quotes are on. Or at least my observation seems to imply that.
Originally posted by Bardock42
They do not know where you are. That has a lot to do with security. It is idiotic to try to lie to your parents about such things.Well, maybe he really is not into you then.
Oh and quickquotes only work on the page the quotes are on. Or at least my observation seems to imply that.
Originally posted by Kelly_LS
I won't disagree on the idiot thing.
That's retarded!
I am not sure what you are replying to. But, hey, it is your life. If you think it is necessary to go out, then do it, I can jsut state that I wouldn't and why I wouldn't.
And yes, but it is the way it is...if you are referring to the quickquotes. Things get more complicated if you can't use them.
Originally posted by Bardock42
I am not sure what you are replying to. But, hey, it is your life. If you think it is necessary to go out, then do it, I can jsut state that I wouldn't and why I wouldn't.And yes, but it is the way it is...if you are referring to the quickquotes. Things get more complicated if you can't use them.
Originally posted by Soleran
Wow I hope it isn't a mid 80's carlo.I hope he doesn't have a mullet and listen to Guns and Roses (Apettite for Destruction.)
You are in the sticks it sounds like.............
Originally posted by Bardock42
No. But I do not enjoy such events necessarily. I am also a good boy. My parents like me. And well, even more so, if I'd ever have asked them to let me they would have.
Since Zach is a "ladies man" as you say it sounds like he just uses you for sex, I have no problem with this if that's how you want the relationship to be but if you like having sex with him and like to see him you shouldn't go behind your parent's back just to go to a hotel.
If your parents find out you probably won't be seing Zach anytime soon. Why don't you just go over to your friends house, since her mom is pretty much encouraging you guys to go to the hotel, she says she will cover for you if your parents call, I'm sure she won't mind if you have sex at her house.
ummmm, I must have missed something a long while ago.... but umm, kelly?? did u and ur bf/finace breakup????
sorry if i real late in finding this out heheehe
edit: whoops i guess you two did.
back to the topic at hand, How bout going to the hotel on the weekend during the day, so u wont get caught spending the night out. Its an idea. hehe
I didnt read all the thread, but whats the big deal about staying at a hotel? 😕 Im not giving advice on what you should do, but if it was me I'd just do what I wanted to do instead of worrying about what my parents are going to get pissed off over.
Seriously Kelly, its your life, not your parents, I think you are old enough to make your own decisions on what to do with yourself and if your parents dont like it then tough cookies. You are almost 18 right? Start taking control of your life and do what you want, you want to look back in 10 years and think of everything you missed out on just because your parents didnt want you to do it? If they do find out you spent the night out and go spaz, tell them chill out.