Would you remain friends with...
someone who accuses you going after their girlfriend?
After being acussed twice, taking the blame for his stupidity and going through emotional hard times i decided enough is enough,
This part onwards is a story within my life.
usually when me and one of my friends have a quarrel it will only last a short amount of time, but this is a different case. Cause the guy is a thick headed stubborn ass who never admit his in the wrong. and the girlfriend is a naive little ***** who used to be one of my good friends (this was before they had a relationship worth speaking of). when ever she had a problem and wanted to talk she'd come to consult me and i would help in anyway i could even though i got to the point where it was taking its toll on me.
Anyways they're coupling has always being troublesome for me, cause she'd come to me for advice and i'd do my best to help. about a month and a half back she came to me and told me that they had a quarrel and it involved me. Apparently he thought i had feelings for her, which i don't and never will, cause she is far from being my type. I had a talk with him i was suprise to hear him say i couldnt look him in the face and talk, how could i if he had an annoyed look on his face at the time. The problem was supposedly over but just to be on the safe side i would avoid talking to her.
Another event arose, he was complaining about not being invited to a bbq where his GF when invited. I don't see why he was complaining, they had no intention on going and he hated the guy hosting it anyway. They never seemed to show up to those group things, I told him, he should go and told him hyperthetically that they may lose respect for him if he don't sshow up to one of those events once in awhile. Being the thick headed fool he was took it the wrong way told his girlfriend the story from "his" point of view
she had a fight with her friends about it. I had to jump in take the blame even though i didn't think it was my fault but his for jumping to the wrong conclusion.
At this point i would see them alot less.
one day out of the blue (on msn) and ask me why i don't talk to her anymore or as much as we used to. At this point i was feeling stress from the amount of work i needed to do and was taking a short rest. I was also hesitant to respond to anything she ask because i was afraid it would somehow blow up in my face, and sure enough it did. She ask me why i don't talk to her anymore then ask me is it because i found her annoying,
I told her that was the reason. She and the bf had been talking and she i asked him why he thinks i don't talk to her no more, he told her cause i thought she was annoying. this was from the previous convo where i told him that i would never go out with her cause i'd find her annoying (to date), It had nothing to do with why i don't talk to her, she asked my what i was annoy at, i refused to answer cause i felt it would blow up in my face. but she was persistant, so i told her it was her couply habits being the nitwit she she told her bf. and knowing he would jump to the wrong conclusion, he approaches me (still on msn) and asked what i ment. I told i was not annoyed at them as a couple but what they do as a couple, naturally he paid no attention to what was said and belived i that wanted his gf. I had enough! I didn't need that shit in my life.
i knew the idiot was the strong jealous type but never thought he would accuse his own friends.
the idiot girlfriend blames me for sparking the jealousy in him when she was the idiot that told him what i said and not knowing her own bf well enough to realise he'd take it the wrong way.
She also blames me for the fight with her friends, guess that can't be helped cause i accepted the blame, even though it was the thick headed bf's for jumping to the wrong conclusion.
The main problem now is we're both in the same friendship group.