Would you remain friends with...

Started by Naz2 pages

Re: Would you remain friends with...

Originally posted by BakaXero
[b]someone who accuses you going after their girlfriend?

After being acussed twice, taking the blame for his stupidity and going through emotional hard times i decided enough is enough,

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Good God. 🙄 I didn't even bother reading that whole long post because I had your answer after the first two sentences.
Look, friends are bound to get into fights and say lots of shit that they probably don't mean. So, from my personal experience, let me say that I would always rather have friends who let me down rather than no friends at all. You can always get over someone's bad attitude and move on and still be left with memories of good times and all that cheesy stuff. But if you just throw away every person that you get in an argument with, you're left with no one and eventually you turn into the creepy old cat lady because you have no friends left.

Originally posted by Naz
Good God. 🙄 I didn't even bother reading that whole long post because I had your answer after the first two sentences.
Look, friends are bound to get into fights and say lots of shit that they probably don't mean. So, from my personal experience, let me say that I would always rather have friends who let me down rather than no friends at all. You can always get over someone's bad attitude and move on and still be left with memories of good times and all that cheesy stuff. But if you just throw away every person that you get in an argument with, you're left with no one and eventually you turn into the creepy old cat lady because you have no friends left.

Should have read the rest. Actually everybody should have. Actually that should have been in the GDF, where people don't get tired after reading two sentences.

Originally posted by Bardock42
Should have read the rest. Actually everybody should have. Actually that should have been in the GDF, where people don't get tired after reading two sentences.

I went back and read the whole thing, and my advice remains the same.

Originally posted by Naz
I went back and read the whole thing, and my advice remains the same.

You advise him to stay friends with someone he doesn't even like. What. The. Hell?

Originally posted by Bardock42
You advise him to stay friends with someone he doesn't even like. What. The. Hell?

When did he say he didn't like them? I never read that part. I just read that they've been fighting over a bunch of crap that they're not going to remember 5 years from now.

Originally posted by Naz
When did he say he didn't like them? I never read that part. I just read that they've been fighting over a bunch of crap that they're not going to remember 5 years from now.

He said she is annoying and he is an idiot. He doesn't seem to like them much.

Theres a chick that Im friends with but known her exboyfriend for longer. When they where going out I called him a few times to say hey...most of the time she'd scream from the background "Keep away from my man" etc etc...it got to the point where I wouldn't talk to either of them.

If your friend is so insecure about his relationship then he really needs to think if loosing a friendship with you is worth it.

Originally posted by Bardock42
Should have read the rest. Actually everybody should have. Actually that should have been in the GDF, where people don't get tired after reading two sentences.

Yeah maybe i should have posted there.
Originally posted by Naz
Good God. 🙄 I didn't even bother reading that whole long post because I had your answer after the first two sentences.
Look, friends are bound to get into fights and say lots of shit that they probably don't mean. So, from my personal experience, let me say that I would always rather have friends who let me down rather than no friends at all. You can always get over someone's bad attitude and move on and still be left with memories of good times and all that cheesy stuff. But if you just throw away every person that you get in an argument with, you're left with no one and eventually you turn into the creepy old cat lady because you have no friends left.

I find it impossible to be friends with someone who distrusts you in such a big way. I mean come on! I already forgave him before and then i had to be cautious about things i did or say and still i found it hard to keep things right by everyone. One gets annoyed at me for not talking to them and the other one gets annoyed if i do. and i didn't want to be the reason for any of the break ups and quarrels. i'm sick of it.
Originally posted by Naz
When did he say he didn't like them? I never read that part. I just read that they've been fighting over a bunch of crap that they're not going to remember 5 years from now.

so basically i should stay friends with someone who accuses me and will probably still accuse me for the next five years or until they actually break up?

Originally posted by BakaXero
so basically i should stay friends with someone who accuses me and will probably still accuse me for the next five years or until they actually break up?

Yes! I got in an argument far worse and far more complicated than the one you're dealing with, and now because of it I never speak to two friends who I'd known since kindergarten. Believe me, when I was in that argument I thought my friends stupid and naive and annoying, and I was foolish enough to tell them that. But I wish every friggin day that I hadn't said the things that I did, even if it meant I would have had to step off of my pedestal and humiliate myself.

sorry i find a friendship without respect or trust pretty pointless, if he can't trust me being near his is gf to whom I was also friends with, then why remain friends? If he doesn't trust me then he doesn't respect me and if that's the case, then i how can i respect or trust him.
Friendship is build on a foundation, if the foundation is not solid and sturdy then it eventually will callapse, once it callapse you then have to decide whether or not its worth rebuilding it. cause if the foundation remains the same then it's pointless as you know the potential for it to last is not very likely and is bound to callapse once again.

Originally posted by BakaXero
sorry i find a friendship without respect or trust pretty pointless, if he can't trust me being near his is gf to whom I was also friends with, then why remain friends? If he doesn't trust me then he doesn't respect me and if that's the case, then i how can i respect or trust him.
Friendship is build on a foundation, if the foundation is not solid and sturdy then it eventually will callapse, once it callapse you then have to decide whether or not its worth rebuilding it. cause if the foundation remains the same then it's pointless as you know the potential for it to last is not very likely and is bound to callapse once again.

Smilie whore. 😛

guys who get upset because another guy is trying to holla at there girlfriend, have some serious mental issues. the girl, if she is trustworthy, will obviously turn the guy down, becuase she is in a relationship with you. so why get upset?

Originally posted by Kongu Dude
Smilie whore. 😛

what's that got to do with anything?

Originally posted by dr. pookie
guys who get upset because another guy is trying to holla at there girlfriend, have some serious mental issues. the girl, if she is trustworthy, will obviously turn the guy down, becuase she is in a relationship with you. so why get upset?

mate, i think you got the wrong idea about the subject

😂

Nice avvy, Baka. ermm

Yes, and I'd have sex with their girl.