Originally posted by debbiejo
It's blasphemy... 🙄
love is hard to find. and i am the last to play police, this is the only culture that allows people the idea of marrying for love, most others marry for money and status...and then have cartisan or how ever u spell the upper class prostitutes...so, we are living in an awesome time, in other times, who you dated was the subject of everyone's business, it's less so now.
so, if two people find it, well, good for them!!!!!!!
http://www.crisscross.com/forum/should_asian_men_start_dating_black_women?/m_661576/tm.htm
http://www.crisscross.com/forum/Asian_Men_and_Black_Women/m_359971/tm.htm
Well, I guess b/c black women and Asian men are left out of the dating pool, more black women and Asian men are dating...which makes sense to me. I knew one black lady who is very educated and works in a high position in politics and she went to China to get her husband. Gotta find it where ever you can, I don't judge a genuine search for love.
Here is what one person says:
"I know lots of black girl/Japanese guy relationships. In fact, I'm in one. (sort of, but that's another story, hahaha)
It's rare, but how many young black girls do you see in Japan, anyway?
I don't think Japanese guys have the image that Halle Berry is the essential "Black woman". Younger Japanese guys seem to be into the Beyonce/Destiny's Child sort of thing (curvy bodies, fashionable clothes, great spirit, having fun)
If you want to hook up with a Japanese guy, do it because you like him, and not just because he's Japanese. That's the worst kind of girl, and they (as well as everyone else) can spot that a mile away. It's not attractive and it's downright scary!
Asanosuke:
You've only seen 1 black guy/Japanese girl couple? Wow! You must be living in like, Tohoku or something. XD
Like I said before, there are black woman/Japanese guy relationships. We're just not as numerous as the other IR groups. And probably not as vocal."