Originally posted by SpearheadThat actually sounds alot like my mom, shes dependant upon male attention so before she leaves someone she makes sure shes got someone else to go to.
Sounds like she's just reaching out for just about anyone...literally. I know some people just can't stand to be alone, romantically, for even a week--I had a friend like that, and it's really, really irritating.Needless to say, there's a fair chance that this relationship is going nowhere. I know that won't help you now, but...it's the thought that counts, I s'pose
Nothing hurts like the truth.
And the truth is that your mom should put your needs above her own but she is not going too. She seems rather selfish and is probably going to see any guy that she wants to regardless of how you feel about him so you are probably going to have to just deal with it until you move out or she finds a new boyfriend which ever comes first. Life’s a garden dig it.
Originally posted by dirkdirdenI'm not waiting four years for this guy to leave or for my mom to find a new guy
Nothing hurts like the truth.And the truth is that your mom should put your needs above her own but she is not going too. She seems rather selfish and is probably going to see any guy that she wants to regardless of how you feel about him so you are probably going to have to just deal with it until you move out or she finds a new boyfriend which ever comes first. Life’s a garden dig it.
Originally posted by hopefulness
I'm not waiting four years for this guy to leave or for my mom to find a new guy
If she leaves this guy she'll just pick up the next guys she meets and then you'll have to find a way to break them up and when you do then she'll meet another guy and you'll have to find a way to break them up.
She is co-dependent and will always need a man and more than likely none of them are going to be good guys.
You could try and stay with your dad but he probably doesn't want you and is probably banging other women as we speak.
Also you could leave this forum open on the computer and she will read all these post about how she is messing up her kids life and she might change or have her BF beat you risky business.
Originally posted by dirkdirdenActually she'd just ***** because I don't like her boyfriend and what makes you think my dad doesn't want me? I think his g/f is pretty cool she like the same music that I do.
If she leaves this guy she'll just pick up the next guys she meets and then you'll have to find a way to break them up and when you do then she'll meet another guy and you'll have to find a way to break them up.She is co-dependent and will always need a man and more than likely none of them are going to be good guys.
You could try and stay with your dad but he probably doesn't want you and is probably banging other women as we speak.
Also you could leave this forum open on the computer and she will read all these post about how she is messing up her kids life and she might change or have her BF beat you risky business.
Originally posted by hopefulness
Actually she'd just ***** because I don't like her boyfriend and what makes you think my dad doesn't want me? I think his g/f is pretty cool she like the same music that I do.
I made an incorrect assumption. Your mom seems to pick up really bad guys, so I assumed your dad was a really bad guy.
Go stay with him and your problem is over.