Originally posted by Vinny ValentineThen, I doubt anyone on KMC can help that much really, unless it's through PM's or IM. In a thread it's a little harder to address those kind of personal problems, talking to someone in real life or even over the phone is probably the best thing to do.
Although this is about my Sleeping problem, it is pretty much a big thread on my huge Depression lately.
Just talking to someone can do that world of good. I used to get like, sick terrified about dying and what was after but it's gone mostly now. Still get scared sometimes but the best thing to do is just immerse yourself in living and being with people. It really helps.
Originally posted by Lady Fianna
Then, I doubt anyone on KMC can help that much really, unless it's through PM's or IM. In a thread it's a little harder to address those kind of personal problems, talking to someone in real life or even over the phone is probably the best thing to do.Just talking to someone can do that world of good. I used to get like, sick terrified about dying and what was after but it's gone mostly now. Still get scared sometimes but the best thing to do is just immerse yourself in living and being with people. It really helps.
I have no one I can talk to about it, without making myself look strange, also the whole "I am way to shy to talk to my parents about" it factor rolls in.
But, this thread did cheer me up somewhat last night. Because I don't actually have to talk to someone directly on the phone or in real life to get help.
Originally posted by Vinny ValentineMaybe a helpline then? I know that doesn't sound great but it might be really beneficial.
I have no one I can talk to about it, without making myself look strange, also the whole "I am way to shy to talk to my parents about" it factor rolls in.But, this thread did cheer me up somewhat last night. Because I don't actually have to talk to someone directly on the phone or in real life to get help.
Feel a bit strange offering this as we don't really talk, but yeah, if you want to, you can always PM me.
I'm really not as much of a b.itch as I make out. 😉
Originally posted by Lady Fianna
Maybe a helpline then? I know that doesn't sound great but it might be really beneficial.Feel a bit strange offering this as we don't really talk, but yeah, if you want to, you can always PM me.
I'm really not as much of a b.itch as I make out. 😉
I don't think you're a ***** at all.
I'm not into Helplines, and when I was little I used to prank call them with my friends. Stupid, But funny at the time.
I might just PM you later, but I hate being a bother in that kind of way.
Originally posted by Vinny Valentine😂 Thanks
I don't think you're a ***** at all.I'm not into Helplines, and when I was little I used to prank call them with my friends. Stupid, But funny at the time.
I might just PM you later, but I hate being a bother in that kind of way.
Oh, okay....probably best not to then. 😛
It's not a bother at all. no2
I went through a stage like this about three years ago. Not the exact reasons as you do, but enough to feel like utter shit. I'm trying to remember exactly what happened, but looking back, I feel like I lost almost 8 months fighting it off. It wasn't as much depression as it was apathy, and I couldn't stand living like that. I didn't give a **** about myself, or what I did, or the people around me.
The answer, for me at least, was a relatively simple one. My last grandparent had just died, and this had given me another chance to re-examine life, death, and everything in between. But, y'know what? Unless the Buddhists are right, you've only got one chance to make your life count. Oh sure, you might say to yourself it doesn't matter when you die, but why should that bother you? You should be concerning yourself with now. And, depending on what you believe in, you can reach the afterlife and look back at your mortal existence and remember what you did, and how much fun you had doing it.
Despite what you might think, the people around you do care. Your parents might be giving you a hard time, but you need to try talking to them. They're there for you, and sometimes even a hug is enough to brighten your day. Look to your friends, talk to them. Do the things you enjoy doing, be it reading, playing video games, sports, or just chillaxing with friends. It's not important, just do something.
I know we don't interact all that much, but if you want to talk, you can send me an IM. Never feel like you're alone, because you're not.
Hope you can get over this, pal.