This disagreement can always be settled with one side burning the other on stakes....
Hmm, but wasn`t one of PT`s points that Jedi Order were not perfect? There was the matter of Qui-Gon having diffrent aproach than Council, and Yoda mentioning the arrogance of Jedi. So Force Users can disagree and even Light Side may have diffrent aproaches. But I agree that emotions make the big diffrence between Dark and Light.
By the way, my stance is pretty in the middle. I don`t like some EU, but many people put great effort into it, and as a whole it doesn`t deserve contempt. EU fans unfortunately don`t have a poster of Ush`s quality on their side, so it is not a challenge to argue against them.