Chiki, I'm in a way surprised and in a way not surprised about LovelyOne. It just goes to show that none of us really know each other on the board. There's only one thing that we can all be 100% sure about the others and that's that we love POTC. As someone who's been a member of other boards, I can tell you this one is pretty tame and we're lucky there are few fights.
JDFE, or whoever uses that name when the real JDFE isn't around, is an immature little kid and I'm probably going to start trouble by saying that, but that person isn't worth getting mad over. How can there be racism on a message board? I certainly don't know what any of you look like except Kate, and that's because she has a link to her blog or myspace or whatever.
So don't be too mad, but take a break if you need it. You'll come back loving POTC all the more for it.