Originally posted by Scythe
Be blunt, very blunt. I'd rather make a fool of myself to know the truth, than spend my time thinking what could've happened. Keep searching, because another pretty girl on the other side is searching for you right now. You have to meet her half way.And I know a ton of people argue: "Well my love fell on my lap, I didn't have to lift a finger!" Those people are douchebags. Usually rich, wealthy douchebags who land women not because they are loved, but for their cash. So don't be an idiotic douche and keep lookin' out for the one.
If this chick at your school that you think lied might be the one, bring up the question, be blunt about it. Just ask: "Did you lie to avoid me?" If she says yes, then f*ck that! If she says no, pay close attention to her mannerisms. If she's all sympathetic and emotional, you'll know she's telling the truth, but if she adds sarcasm to her answer, like: "umm, no! Silly you, I'd never avoid you....you silly you.." Yeah, she's covering up that fact that she was...
That's very well-thought out advice, and I think I will do so tomorrow. Thanks for that 😄 👆