Even when two people are compatible, and there is a small chance of conflict between the two, people changeAhhhhhh you hit in on the nail...................People change .and if one can realize that people do change and grow then there is endless posibilites to this.........
Yes people change and grow.......Is that a sin? Yes it is in many relationshiips................stay the same and all is ok........change and grow.....Implecisity that is what we all here to do................
Re: Why Do Relationships Fail?
Originally posted by Smiter
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Not enough communication. People aren't honest with each other. They don't trust each other. That's why relationships don't work. With every relationship, you need trust and honesty, and a lot of communication. If you have none of that, you're doomed.
Another reason that relationships fail is that one or both have no empathy meaning they cannot know what it's like to be in the others shoes. They are oblivious, or don't care........Learning how to listen is important. If one doesn't listen the other might think about leaving to find someone who WILL listen.
Originally posted by soin2cal
Each time relationships fail, it is because one cheated, or was not honest enough.Lots have same relation to "why".
Originally posted by debbiejoHaha, you both make me laugh. Could it be that people expect so much in a relationship, and when one or more of their expectations aren't successful, they feel like the relationship isn't good enough, so they give up on it and seek another. Like Becker said, "No expectations, no disapointment." then agian, that's sounds a bit like abstinence... Teehee.
Another reason that relationships fail is that one or both have no empathy meaning they cannot know what it's like to be in the others shoes. They are oblivious, or don't care........Learning how to listen is important. If one doesn't listen the other might think about leaving to find someone who WILL listen.
]Originally posted by lord xyz.They all want to be heard,and understood.. why do you think there are protesters? Because they want to be heard. It is a basic human need to many.
[B]Haha, you both make me laugh. Could it be that people expect so much in a relationship, and when one or more of their expectations aren't successful, they feel like the relationship isn't good enough, so they give up on it and seek another. Like Becker said, "No expectations, no disapointment." then agian, that's sounds a bit like abstinence... Teehee
Originally posted by debbiejo
This IMO is why the god of the bible is flawed......That god has a NEED to be listened to which is a human need.ok, back on topic.
not really the God of the bible is an overgod
only demigods -> greater dieties need worshipers to maintain their power (see D&D core rule books)
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Speaking of relationships failing I ran across an analogy.
Once there was a little girl who had problems to tie her shoes so she asked her best friend and said "I can't do it all by myself, can you help me?" But her best friend said "NO, I don't see the need for it" So the girl kept trying to tie her shoes cause she knew it needed to be done and it was causing her to stumble. So then she asked again to her best friend..He said "NO I don't see any problem and I am busy with many things." This went on for years until the little girl learned all by herself to tie her own shoes....At that point her best friend came to her one day and said "Whats going on with you? What is going on with your shoes?" And the little girl said "I learned to tie them all by myself, aren't you proud?" But the friend said "NO I liked you better when you didn't know how to tie your shoes" The girl answered and said "What? You didn't think I needed them tied?" And the friend said " I never noticed."
This is also why relationships fail.