Ive not read through this one but Id say a lot of times its lack of communication... and sometimes... its not that they arent talking... more so they dont know how to talk to each other. When I was with my ex (my daughters dad) I couldnt talk to him ... but expressing my feelings and thoughts to others was easy.... but then I got to where I simply didnt care as well.
Just because someone doesn't love you back, doesn't make your Love any less valid.
I've been in Love before, and no it wasn't an illusion. It may not have been mature love, or selfless love, but it wasn't something I invoked upon myself.
Unfortunately it wasn't returned....guess what....I was heartbroken ...
For TWO YEARS
I would have died for this guy.....i dont know wtf got into me....i would never ask to be in that state of mind again....i never loved someone since to that intensity....not even my current relationships contain that kind of flame.
Originally posted by Lord Urizen
Just because someone doesn't love you back, doesn't make your Love any less valid.I've been in Love before, and no it wasn't an illusion. It may not have been mature love, or selfless love, but it wasn't something I invoked upon myself.
Unfortunately it wasn't returned....guess what....I was heartbroken ...
[b]For TWO YEARS
I would have died for this guy.....i dont know wtf got into me....i would never ask to be in that state of mind again....i never loved someone since to that intensity....not even my current relationships contain that kind of flame. [/B]
thats because you gave it all that youve got and youve got nothing more to give. You invested something and lost everything. Now you gotta recover it back. But recovering doesnt mean recovering it back to the ORIGINAL STATE. Recovering means some parts will be missing and not complete. Love sucks doesnt it. But in return, for those that are missing pieces, you become stronger wiser and tougher.
Originally posted by Smiter
thats because you gave it all that youve got and youve got nothing more to give. You invested something and lost everything. Now you gotta recover it back. But recovering doesnt mean recovering it back to the ORIGINAL STATE. Recovering means some parts will be missing and not complete. Love sucks doesnt it. But in return, for those that are missing pieces, you become stronger wiser and tougher.
Indeed. ....very well said.
Originally posted by Lord Urizen
Just because someone doesn't love you back, doesn't make your Love any less valid.I've been in Love before, and no it wasn't an illusion. It may not have been mature love, or selfless love, but it wasn't something I invoked upon myself.
Unfortunately it wasn't returned....guess what....I was heartbroken ...
[b]For TWO YEARS
I would have died for this guy.....i dont know wtf got into me....i would never ask to be in that state of mind again....i never loved someone since to that intensity....not even my current relationships contain that kind of flame. [/B]
Originally posted by SmiterI know what you say is the truth because I learned this exact same thing through experience...
thats because you gave it all that youve got and youve got nothing more to give. You invested something and lost everything. Now you gotta recover it back. But recovering doesnt mean recovering it back to the ORIGINAL STATE. Recovering means some parts will be missing and not complete. Love sucks doesnt it. But in return, for those that are missing pieces, you become stronger wiser and tougher.
Originally posted by BobbyD
Indeed. ....very well said.