Why Do Relationships Fail?

Started by debbiejo67 pages

Good ,but can you elaborate in more detail.

Originally posted by Smiter
Why Do Relationships Fail?

Because people stop trying to make them work.

Originally posted by Adam_PoE
Because people stop trying to make them work.

Yah, committment is a very important.

I think this thread is oversimplifying the complex chain of events that can lead to the failure of a relationship.

Cause chicks don't fcukin' listen.

1 word-Cheating.

Nope.........it's not being there.....empty space........empty.

Love is an illusion created by the mind to fill a void that doesn't exist. As time passes the realiztion is made and the relationship falls apart.

"All this so called love is just a temporary confusion of the mind, a mental illness." Haruhi Suzumiya

Actually, the REAL reason why relationships fail is because of space aliens.

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Noooooo don't think this yet let it go...True love is what? .....haven't found it myself......

Re: Why Do Relationships Fail?

Originally posted by Smiter
Simple Questions, Post Opinions Here

Many reasons.

Ive not read through this one but Id say a lot of times its lack of communication... and sometimes... its not that they arent talking... more so they dont know how to talk to each other. When I was with my ex (my daughters dad) I couldnt talk to him ... but expressing my feelings and thoughts to others was easy.... but then I got to where I simply didnt care as well.

Originally posted by debbiejo
Noooooo don't think this yet let it go...True love is what? .....haven't found it myself......

thats because you spend too much time with MR. K.M.C.

Originally posted by Shelbert Lemon
I got to where I simply didnt care as well.
Yep, that's what it comes down to alright.

Just because someone doesn't love you back, doesn't make your Love any less valid.

I've been in Love before, and no it wasn't an illusion. It may not have been mature love, or selfless love, but it wasn't something I invoked upon myself.

Unfortunately it wasn't returned....guess what....I was heartbroken ...

For TWO YEARS

I would have died for this guy.....i dont know wtf got into me....i would never ask to be in that state of mind again....i never loved someone since to that intensity....not even my current relationships contain that kind of flame.

Originally posted by Lord Urizen
Just because someone doesn't love you back, doesn't make your Love any less valid.

I've been in Love before, and no it wasn't an illusion. It may not have been mature love, or selfless love, but it wasn't something I invoked upon myself.

Unfortunately it wasn't returned....guess what....I was heartbroken ...

[b]For TWO YEARS

I would have died for this guy.....i dont know wtf got into me....i would never ask to be in that state of mind again....i never loved someone since to that intensity....not even my current relationships contain that kind of flame. [/B]

thats because you gave it all that youve got and youve got nothing more to give. You invested something and lost everything. Now you gotta recover it back. But recovering doesnt mean recovering it back to the ORIGINAL STATE. Recovering means some parts will be missing and not complete. Love sucks doesnt it. But in return, for those that are missing pieces, you become stronger wiser and tougher.

Originally posted by Smiter
thats because you gave it all that youve got and youve got nothing more to give. You invested something and lost everything. Now you gotta recover it back. But recovering doesnt mean recovering it back to the ORIGINAL STATE. Recovering means some parts will be missing and not complete. Love sucks doesnt it. But in return, for those that are missing pieces, you become stronger wiser and tougher.

Indeed. ....very well said.

Originally posted by Lord Urizen
Just because someone doesn't love you back, doesn't make your Love any less valid.

I've been in Love before, and no it wasn't an illusion. It may not have been mature love, or selfless love, but it wasn't something I invoked upon myself.

Unfortunately it wasn't returned....guess what....I was heartbroken ...

[b]For TWO YEARS

I would have died for this guy.....i dont know wtf got into me....i would never ask to be in that state of mind again....i never loved someone since to that intensity....not even my current relationships contain that kind of flame. [/B]

Originally posted by Smiter
thats because you gave it all that youve got and youve got nothing more to give. You invested something and lost everything. Now you gotta recover it back. But recovering doesnt mean recovering it back to the ORIGINAL STATE. Recovering means some parts will be missing and not complete. Love sucks doesnt it. But in return, for those that are missing pieces, you become stronger wiser and tougher.
I know what you say is the truth because I learned this exact same thing through experience...

Originally posted by BobbyD
Indeed. ....very well said.

I feel like a guru or something 😄
Those who are looking for relationships, Does everyone go through the same shit? Heartache-Heartbreak-Headache-Sexache?

Originally posted by Smiter

Those who are looking for relationships, Does everyone go through the same shit? Heartache-Heartbreak-Headache-Sexache?
I dont know about everyone but yeah something like that.