Originally posted by debbiejo
I believe some people misunderstand that relationships change. A person can still love someone without being in love with them. It's not a bad thing really, if you can live with that. Some can't though and want to move on.
Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
so in this situation, would one of them be like "I still care immensely for you, but I am not sure if I love you?"
That's one of the many things that were wrong with my previous relationship. I wasn't honest with myself. I didn't love my girlfriend, but I cared for her very much. I don't know what 'true love' feels like, nor do I believe that it can truly exist. Relationships are never based solely on love. There's finances, compatibility, comfort level and settling for the one you're with. Honestly, how many people REALLY end up with the person they'd give anything to be with? I can think of many girls I might have been happier with, than my ex. Maybe, love is a matter of tolerance, too. Don't shoot me, though; these are just my current thoughts on the subject.