Why Do Relationships Fail?

Started by Rogue Jedi67 pages

it's like a drug. it gets you high, sometimes causing hallucinations.

Time to wake up before it wears out.

or you can just keep popping pills.

And when your pill loses it's thrill, then what?

Love to me is a bit more complicated. Before you pick up that pill, you should analyze it carefully to see if that's the right pill for you. In time that pill could turn into something else. Will it become a pain reliever, or the causer of pain.

red or blue?

Here is a situation, do you think this is love?

I ran into a glum guy while walking at the park. We started chatting. He told how immensely in love he was with his girlfriend who he was court ordered to stay away from. They are both jealous, they got into a huge and nasty fight, the police were called, she was taken to jail, charges were also pressed against him. He is not allowed to call, write, or have any contact with her nor her with him.
He called her, and told her where he was. She called the police and he was thrown in jail.
He wants to send her flowers with a letter (breaking the court order)
He is hanging out at the park where she visits and has carved "I'm sorry, I love you" into every bench hoping she will see it. (which is stalking) The 2 days ago he was at that park for 4 hours, 1 day ago he was at that park for over 3, when I had met him.
He has talked to the mail man to speak to her on his behalf.

Is this healthy?

Originally posted by debbiejo
Here is a situation, do you think this is love?

I ran into a glum guy while walking at the park. We started chatting. He told how immensely in love he was with his girlfriend who he was court ordered to stay away from. They are both jealous, they got into a huge and nasty fight, the police were called, she was taken to jail, charges were also pressed against him. He is not allowed to call, write, or have any contact with her nor her with him.
He called her, and told her where he was. She called the police and he was thrown in jail again.
He wants to send her flowers with a letter (breaking the court order)
He is hanging out at the park where she visits and has carved "I'm sorry, I love you" into every bench hoping she will see it. (which is stalking)
He has talked to the mail man to speak to her on his behalf.

Is this healthy?

no. this is stalking.

I agree, but he thinks this is love.

most stalkers think this.

He stated that they were both jealous people. Is that love, if not, why?

then they should never have gotten the popo involved.

because one party in the relationship takes more than he/she gives

it happens sometimes. i have already commented on this.

Originally posted by debbiejo
Here is a situation, do you think this is love?

I ran into a glum guy while walking at the park. We started chatting. He told how immensely in love he was with his girlfriend who he was court ordered to stay away from. They are both jealous, they got into a huge and nasty fight, the police were called, she was taken to jail, charges were also pressed against him. He is not allowed to call, write, or have any contact with her nor her with him.
He called her, and told her where he was. She called the police and he was thrown in jail.
He wants to send her flowers with a letter (breaking the court order)
He is hanging out at the park where she visits and has carved "I'm sorry, I love you" into every bench hoping she will see it. (which is stalking) The 2 days ago he was at that park for 4 hours, 1 day ago he was at that park for over 3, when I had met him.
He has talked to the mail man to speak to her on his behalf.

Is this healthy?

Better watch he doesn't come stalking you.

dood is an 11 o clock breaking news story just waiting to happen.

Dood?

Originally posted by queeq
Better watch he doesn't come stalking you.
Nah, I carry a knife...... 😄

Originally posted by queeq
Dood?
dood=dude.

Why are girl called dudes lately? 😕

Shouldn't we be called dudettes?

equality of the sexes.