Why Do Relationships Fail?

thats a factor that could cause it. could also be that one of the partners gets confused, a little scared maybe. maybe they just need a break in order to work things out for themselves.

i think some realationship fails because of sometimes lack of time for each other and lack of trust.. trust is really important in order to succeed your relationship.

Relationship mainly fails due to lack of trust among the people who are involved in a relationship.

When a person does something wrong and does not tells his/her partner, the problem starts exactly here.

One advice is that a person should never "cheat" on his/her partner. Such an act totally destroys the sanctity of the relationship and that person can never be trusted so easily.

If a person feels that he/she is not happy with his/her mate, he/she should inform his/her mate about the reasons or problems he/she is experiencing in the relationship between them, so that his/her mate gets a chance to solve any existing deficiencies or issues in the relationship to keep it healthy and successful.

One more thing is that a person involved in a relationship should try to properly understand the personality of his/her mate. Same goes for the mate as well and one thing should be noted that no one is perfect, so some level of tolerance should be present among the partners.

And another reason for a relationship to fail is due to acts of violence. A voilent relationship will never work out in any case.

Originally posted by S_W_LeGenD

If a person feels that he/she is not happy with his/her mate, he/she should inform his/her mate about the reasons or problems he/she is experiencing in the relationship between them, so that his/her mate gets a chance to solve any existing deficiencies or issues in the relationship to keep it healthy and successful.

I find that insecure people suffer worse heartbreak than secure people. When you realize that there are millions and millions of other potential boyfreinds/girlfreinds out there for you, you will be at ease.

the proble is when someone has been wit someone for an extended period of time, they cant picture themselves with anyone else, secure or not. my broher in law and sis splitup for a year or so. he realized what he had done wrong, and fought for her. now they are married, happy, with a beautiful child. uncle RJ....how about that shit?

How about it?

It's nice when people can work things out. At least they can verbalize nouns, verbs, adjetives, prounouns and all those special things. Some people don't know how. They are like little zomies with evil thoughts only. 😖

The acts are usually more evil than the intentions though.

so is being lied to left and right.

It's also the ones that are quiet but plot and scheme and sabotage.

Originally posted by debbiejo
It's also the ones that are quiet but plot and scheme and sabotage.

Wait - I thought that was your strategy.

not all plan it. some just change their minds as to what they want, leaving their partner a shattered mess.

Originally posted by queeq
The acts are usually more evil than the intentions though.

Originally posted by botankus
Wait - I thought that was your strategy.

women know they can twist us and contort us and make us do whatever they want....why? they have vaginas.

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
the proble is when someone has been wit someone for an extended period of time, they cant picture themselves with anyone else, secure or not. my broher in law and sis splitup for a year or so. he realized what he had done wrong, and fought for her. now they are married, happy, with a beautiful child. uncle RJ....how about that shit?

I understand, trust me I do, I know what it is like to be in love and to be heartbroken, etc.

But what you just said "cant picture themselves with anyone else". That is simply a perception. There are hundreds of wondorful people who can make you just as happy. When you close off other options, and remain focused on the one person, then you are giving them your power.

Rogue, I am not saying that is wrong....

The choice is yours, and your reasons are your own.

But understand...the beleif that this one person is the only person for you is...just a belief..it is just your perception, it is not a fact. Your own perceptions and desires will lead to either suffering or joy, but its always a risk. A risk that you choose to take, not something that is forced on you.

i am glad your brother in law made up with ur sis, and you now have a beautiful nephew/niece, but if he hadn't, ur sis would have found another brother in law for you, and you would have had another beautiful nephew/niece.

Do you see what I am trying to say ? You do not have to suffer just because the person you love does not feel the same way. PM me, I have current personal things I want to tell you, and I want your opinion.

Don't do it, he'll give you a nudie picture. 😱

Originally posted by debbiejo
Don't do it, he'll give you a nudie picture. 😱

no, from now on all those who request those i direct to my profile at dudesnude . com

no thank ya, butt boy.