Why Do Relationships Fail?

Their's so many aspects that complicate relationships, but the most part its communication and understanding.

and that is what killed the cat.

Originally posted by Goddess Kali
I understand, trust me I do, I know what it is like to be in love and to be heartbroken, etc.

But what you just said "cant picture themselves with anyone else". That is simply a perception. There are hundreds of wondorful people who can make you just as happy. When you close off other options, and remain focused on the one person, then you are giving them your power.

Rogue, I am not saying that is wrong....

The choice is yours, and your reasons are your own.

But understand...the beleif that this one person is the only person for you is...just a belief..it is just your perception, it is not a fact. Your own perceptions and desires will lead to either suffering or joy, but its always a risk. A risk that you choose to take, not something that is forced on you.

i am glad your brother in law made up with ur sis, and you now have a beautiful nephew/niece, but if he hadn't, ur sis would have found another brother in law for you, and you would have had another beautiful nephew/niece.

Do you see what I am trying to say ? You do not have to suffer just because the person you love does not feel the same way. PM me, I have current personal things I want to tell you, and I want your opinion.

We do live in a densely populated world with a wide selection, but every relationship requires work - some more than others - regardless with whom it is.

righto....and when someone fails to put in their share of work, even when they promise to, things fall apart. next thing you know, you are a lonely soul.

It's like this: What you put in, you get out.

Usually, there are exceptions though.

I put in all that was required, and then some. and I am alone.

You wish.

I wish? dude...I have been abandoned. She lied to me, betrayed me, and left me.

What's not "alone" about that? I am beyond caring anymore.

It doesn't help when certain people think they know everything there is to know, and everything is set in stone, when things can change quickly, either.

-AC

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
I wish? dude...I have been abandoned. She lied to me, betrayed me, and left me.

What's not "alone" about that? I am beyond caring anymore.

On the surface, I feel for you, seriously... but what did you really expect? She was what... 20-21? Most women that age don't have a single clue what they want.

WE WANT FUN!

Originally posted by Robtard
On the surface, I feel for you, seriously... but what did you really expect? She was what... 20-21? Most women that age don't have a single clue what they want.

some lessons have to be learned the hard way.

Relationships fail because women like to feel protected and safe and not getting that from their partner.

Originally posted by debbiejo
Relationships fail because women like to feel protected and safe and not getting that from their partner.

Too specific an answer for too broad a question.

I'll go with The Trust Thing for $800, Alex.

Originally posted by debbiejo
Relationships fail because women like to feel protected and safe and not getting that from their partner.

Why do you think this could not be a reason why many relationships fail?

personal. I'll pm you.

alright then.

fine.

I think relationships fail because of lack of Trust to each other...
too much expectations to your partner can also be consider why relationships fail....