With me, when i broke up with my last ex, it was because i lost the initial interest i had in her. I mean don't get me wrong she's cute as hell but I became dead bored with her, no matter what we did and no matter how hard we tried.
It got to the point where we'd get on the phone and talk about any and everything, constantly, then later on in the relationship, nothing would be said for as long as 10 min. while on the phone.
It became mind numbing. It's sort of as if we did everything there was to do. Like there was nothing else to do or say anymore. It just became dull. I got 2-1/2 years down the drain and a lesson learned. Not a bad deal, eh?
Originally posted by FistOfThe North
Relationships fail because of incompatibility and getting with and marrying someone just because she looks cute and that's all that matters.Or because they wanna impress others. Stupid are the men whom get married because all his friends are doing it.
Ha. As true as your statement is, women are worse. ...more inclined to marry since their friends marry. Guys, intrinsically want to stay single for as long as they possible can, thus it's more like guys marry because they WANT to marry. Women marry when they CAN marry.
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Originally posted by debbiejo
Who invented long term relationships anyway. I think it's a dumb idea. Ok, for some. Ok, heres an idea. Marriages should be a contract for 5 years, after that, one must renew.........simple.
haha. Marriage may be ok, but it looks like it takes crazy effort and discipline, it seems.
I dunno. And with more and more people getting divorced that staying married nowadays just makes marriage seem not worth the cost and effort.
I do not really fancy ever getting married. I believe many rush in, also the cost, its very expensive and i would want a wedding that wasnt in this country! LOL!
I also believe that you commit yourself to someone, so therefore whats the whole point in marriage? Incase your relationship happened to go wrong for example, then you wasted out all your money.
I am not being negatively, its just my thoughts. I personally think you should commit yourself to everyone if you commit yourself to getting married.
I actualy do commit myself to people, therefore never let them go as theyre important to me. Even a friend!