Originally posted by Lord Urizen
Just because someone doesn't love you back, doesn't make your Love any less valid.I've been in Love before, and no it wasn't an illusion. It may not have been mature love, or selfless love, but it wasn't something I invoked upon myself.
Unfortunately it wasn't returned....guess what....I was heartbroken ...
[b]For TWO YEARS
I would have died for this guy.....i dont know wtf got into me....i would never ask to be in that state of mind again....i never loved someone since to that intensity....not even my current relationships contain that kind of flame. [/B]
PVS must not be at work today.
Originally posted by Smiter
I feel like a guru or something 😄
Those who are looking for relationships, Does everyone go through the same shit? Heartache-Heartbreak-Headache-Sexache?
Originally posted by Stormthis is the most truest thing for me... again... my battle lately is weather to accept whats in front of my face.... again.
Love finds you, often when it' s most inconvenient. It comes in its own time, on its own terms, in whatever shape or form it chooses, and whether you accept it or reject it is entirely up to you.
I want to put this in my profile to save it if you dont mind.
Ok, last year I gave my time money effort love, I gave myself, as in I gave everything that I've got. Unfortunately, my best wasn't good enough that my ex's was trying to find someone better, in other words they cheat. They took advantage of what I've got and so I'm bitter, I am still although, I say to myself, your stronger wiser and tougher than this. I'll be over it soon but it takes time.
Originally posted by Smiter
thats because you gave it all that youve got and youve got nothing more to give.
I know 🙁
Well, actually I do have a lot more to give, but I have always felt that I loved my partners more than they loved me. I'm a very sensitive guy when I open up, and I tend to close off to people I don't feel I can trust.
Originally posted by Smiter
You invested something and lost everything. Now you gotta recover it back. But recovering doesnt mean recovering it back to the ORIGINAL STATE.
I know ... what I felt was in the past, and I learned from it. When I look back though, none of it makes sense. But I learned the hard way that just because I love someone, doesn't mean there's any real connection. The guy I was head over heels for didn't really give a shit about me...lo0o0ng story
It also didn't help that he kept trying to deny who he was.....
Ne ways, I got over it, but I never had a heartbreak last THAT LONG....this hurt far more than my ego....If a soul existed, I felt like my soul itself was damaged....
But I can tell you one thing....I haven't been the same ever since ❌
Originally posted by Smiter
Recovering means some parts will be missing and not complete. Love sucks doesnt it.
Love only sucks when it's not returned, because then you cannot let it circulate, and when it is trapped in your mind and body it becomes a strong poison.
It took me months to admit to the guy how I felt, only to have been humiliated when the guy told all his freinds that I was this "disgusting ***" and "i better stay away from him", even though he flirted with me wayy before that.
At the time I put up with so much abuse....it was like I lost myself...I never felt more desparate in my entire life than at that year.....I look back, and wanna smack myself for allowing myself such weakness.
Today, i don't tolerate any form of abuse, even from those I love.
Originally posted by Smiter
But in return, for those that are missing pieces, you become stronger wiser and tougher.
I agree. But I also became less trusting....and not all because of him. Feelings come and go....I'd have lovers who were obsessed with me one day, and forgot about me the next 4 months....I also had lovers who I was totally attracted to one day, who I forgot about the next day as well.....
I have less trust for my own feelings as well as others.