How Do You Maintain Relationship? · General Discussion Forum

soin2cal Senior Member

My brother and his girlfriend are a little edgy with each other at the moment. It makes me realize what happens in the 'real world' and what i will have to have in the near future. I often think lifes far too stressful between a relationship with people, but at least its only every so often😂 and of course it depends on the type of person you are too😄
I dont find myself arguing with a guy much though😂
But i should probably accept the way the world works as i believe people can stress themselves far too much instead of just staying calm. Afterall the way the world is wont necasarilly change, shamly.

Rogue Jedi Restricted

love will get you past it. love conquers all.

debbiejo Dreamer

No it doesn't.

bangin

Smiter Restricted

I gotta know who's your best that you ever had?

debbiejo Dreamer

Satan.

Rogue Jedi Restricted

Originally posted by debbiejo
No it doesn't.
bangin

yes, it does. why do you say no?

debbiejo Dreamer

Relationships fail all the time when someone is in love.

Rogue Jedi Restricted

that means they werent meant to be, that their love was not strong enough and/or was not mutual.

Smiter Restricted

RJ's comments are so laughable because of Love and all that cuttie shit. 😂

Alliance Enforcer of the Republic

Alcohol?

Smiter Restricted

no its just that because I had an idea that guys are not suppose to open that Love door to their hearts. If they do then women can manipulate him to her will.

Smiter Restricted

That was my biggest mistake. Openning the love door in their heart. That should remain locked and closed. if not It shouldnt exist at all.

debbiejo Dreamer

Doors should be opened, just put up a screen.. 😉

Smiter Restricted

Originally posted by debbiejo
Doors should be opened, just put up a screen.. 😉

Didnt expect that one.

Imperial_Samura Anticrust Smurf

Originally posted by Smiter
no its just that because I had an idea that guys are not suppose to open that Love door to their hearts. If they do then women can manipulate him to her will.

I don't think one getting "manipulated" has anything to do with an "open love door to their hearts" (honestly, can that sound any more corny?)

Being in love has little to do with being weak willed and easily manipulated. Being in love doesn't mean one has to become a spineless creature who dances to the whims of their "lover" - in fact in the person one loves is manipulating you I would seriously question whether ones love is misplaced.

But anyway - chances are one would be manipulated anyway, if not by the object of their affection then by other people with influence. An easily manipulated person, I have found, is just an easily manipulated person.

Rogue Jedi Restricted

Originally posted by Smiter
no its just that because I had an idea that guys are not suppose to open that Love door to their hearts. If they do then women can manipulate him to her will.

with that attitude, you will never have a successful relationship. yes, my heart is open to her, as hers is to me. it is through this mutual love and understanding that we maintain a healthy relationship. all i have is for her, as is all she has is for me. 50/50, get it?

debbiejo Dreamer

What happens if you are 50 and she becomes 70 with her views changes...maybe become liberal or tossing off her former belief?

Rogue Jedi Restricted

you mean she is demanding 70 or giving 70?

Lord Urizen Perfection

I think Rogue Jedi is a sweet heart 🙂

Mr. Sensitive...

debbiejo Dreamer

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
you mean she is demanding 70 or giving 70?

Oh, I didn't specify really what I meant. If a couple is both giving 50/50, then what I mean is that they both are in sync in this view and are compatable. If one changes their view and stays the same give of 50, it seems that the other no longer excepts the 50 that was held, but would now require more because it would take more of the 50 and now make it more a 70 to keep the relationship stable........follow?...If not, then maybe I could explain it a bit better........Though one would consider that the 50 didn't change (by less), the other would see/feel that it sure did, and this would make the other make even more an effort to make the other to see that at least it was the 50, when in fact the person was putting out a 70 just to keep the peace.