Is it even worth getting married anymore?

Started by Cindy Bear17 pages
Originally posted by FistOfThe North
yea but does your partner know you gay? hehe..

Capt is gay.....! Mercy me, no wonder I was laughed at. Silly me! 😮

- Cindy

Originally posted by Cindy Bear
What's so funny 😕 😮

- Cindy

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Originally posted by FistOfThe North
yea but does your partner know you gay? hehe..
Originally posted by Quiero Mota
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Yup, got it now 😮

Originally posted by Cindy Bear
Capt is gay.....! Mercy me, no wonder I was laughed at. Silly me! 😮

- Cindy

Originally posted by FistOfThe North
yea but does your partner know you gay? hehe..

I think he's starting to figure it out. I've tried to be careful and not let him see me looking at other men. But, sometimes I do it without even realizing it.

Originally posted by Cindy Bear
I see, does she know?

- Cindy

Sadly he does not. I wonder if he'll ever know that an ocean away there's someone who loves him very much.

Originally posted by Capt_Fantastic
I think he's starting to figure it out. I've tried to be careful and not let him see me looking at other men. But, sometimes I do it without even realizing it.

Sadly he does not. I wonder if he'll ever know that an ocean away there's someone who loves him very much.

It's a guy 😱 Goodnight sweet Captain. I always loved David Bowie songs.

- Cindy

Originally posted by Cindy Bear
Are you married to a nice girl Capt?

- Cindy

Originally posted by Quiero Mota
😂

Originally posted by Capt_Fantastic
I think he's starting to figure it out. I've tried to be careful and not let him see me looking at other men. But, sometimes I do it without even realizing it.

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Originally posted by FistOfThe North
I digress folks. Point being, don't get married. Take that advice and do whatever you want with it.

Just do the correct thing. And that's considering it first.


ok, is she like pressuring you? backing you into a corner? if that's the case, then DO NOT LET HER GET AWAY WITH IT. DO NOT GIVE IN. i speak from experience, trust me. if you want more details, then pm me, i am not about to share it out in the open. if what i have to tell you actually helps you, then i will have done my part in helping a fellow member.
i have learned the hard way. thats why, now, i am taking it slow. we are deeply in love, committed and exclusive to one another, taking it day by day, just enjoying being with each other in the moment, living in the here and now. and i'll be honest, life has never been better. there is no pressure and we are 100% comfortable in our relationship together.

and shesssss outta here. bye sock

whos the sock? whos outta here? is there a female sock here? tell me!!!

Originally posted by FistOfThe North
With more people, in the U.S., getting divorced more than people getting and staying marriage now, is it even worth getting married anymore? My opinion, basically, is don't get married in the first place. In this day and age, I say it's not worth it.

Maybe it was back then. But now. Nah...

if its what you want to do, then do it...

i almost did it, and i may still do...

What was the point of getting married in the 1st place? It never made since to me.

Originally posted by King Nothing
What was the point of getting married in the 1st place? It never made since to me.

to become one with the person you love the most, the person whose life and welfare are more important to you than your own. the thing is, the feeling has to be mutual. you have to be ready to share everything with them, your whole life. they come first to you, and vice versa.

If you believe in love and you love someone and think they are the one then there is a point in marriage, my grandparents were married for more than 50 years so love, commitment and faithfulness is still present, just rare. 😛

I am still young, therefore obviously can't properly answer this. However i cannot imagine me ever getting married. Why? Well i believe commitment with anyone comes from getting to know each other, not necasarilly having to propse marriage because you can still love that person equally without marrying them! Also one thing that has come to my notice is the amount of people whom are divorcing nowadays. It costs a lot of money and you can never gurantee it will last so why bother?

I'm 22 and I've been married for 2 and a half years, my husband was 18 when we married. He was 16 and I was 17 when we met, he propsed after 3 months but we waited till we'd lived together 2 years before we actually got wed. We are insanely happy and the wedding was awesome. It's worth it if you know you're in love, you have complete trust (this from one of the most paranoid people ever!) and you know it will last. Yeah, we argue, we're both passionate fighters and things get broken and we tell each other we're gonna leave but we both know it's never going to happen. Now we're trying for our first kid. Don't rule out marriage altogether, just make sure you've got the right person and suddenly the idea won't seem so bad. I never believed in marriage before we met.

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
to become one with the person you love the most, the person whose life and welfare are more important to you than your own. the thing is, the feeling has to be mutual. you have to be ready to share everything with them, your whole life. they come first to you, and vice versa.
Can't you just do that with out getting married?

you can, but you know how traditions are.

I beleive in marriage but it's not ever something I push on my boyfriend who doesnt beleieve in marriage at all. We love each other very much but marriage is not even in our vocabulary right now.

you have to both want it. you have to both be ready for it. you have to want the same things.

if not, it will fail.

bottom line is how you feel towards each other. you can be just living together for years, love each other like a husband and wife, and thats enough.