Originally posted by long pig
Maybe the thread title was offensive....But still, why can't you female rape victims simply get over it? I mean, a guy beats you up and screws you and you're mentally unstable for the rest of your life. Why not just say" That sucked. Hope it doesn't happen again."?
I mean, when I got beat up, it didn't scar me for life. Of course I wasn't raped but that shit wouldn't scar me either. Do you know how many men in prison are raped? Do they become crazy crack smoking bastards for the rest of their life? No, they move on.
Honestly, can women be that weak of mind as to allow such a truly small event ruin their lives?
Not everyone get scarred for life by rape, man.. And I dont blame them for being scarred, either..
Also, you cant compare being raped as a male, to being raped as a female.. There's a lot of things that has to be under consideration..
Males cannot get pregnant, for one.. If the rapist isn't using protection and the woman for one is against abortion, then she has a lifetimes reminder of the horrible event, and maybe a child she doesnt want..
There is a number of things that can effect the female mind.. One would be that she's a victim because she's a female and the female gender is scientificly considered weaker than the males, and that's why they result in being the victim, because they cant defend themselves..
I can bring up a lot of other things too, but I dont have time right now.. Point being there for a starter, you cant compare male to female.. It's a bigger deal than you make it appear to be.. Sure, some may exhaterate, while some actually get totaly devestated..