Woohoo, official off-topic thread!

Originally posted by Lana
Wow 😊

Good for your sister, I was bullied a lot in school myself, and I won't say anything more about it as even though I've been out of high school four years it's still effected me a lot now. Can't get much more personal than that.

Sorry, but pity stories like that tend to make me want to roll my eyes and completely brush off anything said more than anything else.

Most people who bully others online do so because they don't have the balls to do so in real life, for starters. Also, I don't know if you've ever noticed this, but people who bully generally do have friends. Lots of them, in fact. So that's completely irrelevant.

But - how does saying nasty things about them really make you any better? Only difference is you're doing it behind their back, which is a hell of a lot worse, IMO.

If Neo's got a problem with people on here, he should just report it and then completely ignore the situation. Put the people on ignore that constantly annoy him. Because you know why a lot of people bully others? For attention. Don't give them that attention - which is extremely easy to do online - and they've failed and eventually will stop.

I too got bullied at school, it does things to you, I shall take that advice.

Originally posted by EvilAngel
...Sorry, did you just say, good for my sister??
Was that a mistype, or did you really mean to type that?

It's called sarcasm, dear. Though I did mean to say "good for you", sorry.

As I said, it annoys me greatly when people pull out stuff like that. "Oh well this happened and thus don't annoy me!" Sorry, but you're not the only one in the world that's had to deal with stuff like that. And sometimes you need to disconnect your personal feelings from a situation and look at things objectively. I'm sorry, but it's true. Reality's not nice.

(also, another little fact - siblings generally don't like being used as examples or excuses for things)

Originally posted by Lana
It's called sarcasm, dear. Though I did mean to say "good for you", sorry.

As I said, it annoys me greatly when people pull out stuff like that. "Oh well this happened and thus don't annoy me!" Sorry, but you're not the only one in the world that's had to deal with stuff like that. And sometimes you need to disconnect your personal feelings from a situation and look at things objectively. I'm sorry, but it's true. Reality's not nice.

(also, another little fact - siblings generally don't like being used as examples or excuses for things)

I don't accept you're apology.

I'm saying don't annoy me because i think you as a moderator should not be encouraging peopel to say things they might and will regret.

I know i'm not the only one whose had to deal with it. And that is what disturbs me. And i regret to say when somethnig like that is involved, no i can;'t see things obectively, i'm a bit too overcome by anger to really see things clearly.

Not reality isn't nice, it really isn't, but you know what?

That doesn't mean we need to accept it. I perhaps unlike you, i don't comprise when i find something wrong, why should i.

Please let's not start a bad argument. Please.

All due repest, i started nothing.

So when's your 1st date set?

Originally posted by Sol Valentine
Please let's not start a bad argument. Please.

Good for your date.

Originally posted by EvilAngel
I don't accept you're apology.

I'm saying don't annoy me because i think you as a moderator should not be encouraging peopel to say things they might and will regret.

I know i'm not the only one whose had to deal with it. And that is what disturbs me. And i regret to say when somethnig like that is involved, no i can;'t see things obectively, i'm a bit too overcome by anger to really see things clearly.

Not reality isn't nice, it really isn't, but you know what?

That doesn't mean we need to accept it. I perhaps unlike you, i don't comprise when i find something wrong, why should i.

Well, if perhaps you had not misinterpreted what I originally said...

I do not see how saying nasty things about people behind their back is any better than doing so to their face, is all. I think it's worse, in fact. Far worse.

And I'm not saying that you have to accept it, but acting like it gives you a free pass to be nasty isn't going to help matters at all, it only makes it worse.

There are ways to get that sort of stuff taken care of, and it's incredibly easy on the internet. However, if it's not ever brought to the attention of the people who CAN do something about it, what do you WANT us to do? We're not bloody psychic.

It has to be reported, although in fairness sometimes it does have to be reported quite alot before someone surveys the situation.

Originally posted by Neo Darkhalen
It has to be reported, although in fairness sometimes it does have to be reported quite alot before someone surveys the situation.

Not everything that gets reported is deemed enough of a problem where it actually needs to be dealt with.

Originally posted by Lana
Not everything that gets reported is deemed enough of a problem where it actually needs to be dealt with.

I feel like you said the best way is to just ignore and report.

Originally posted by Lana
Well, if perhaps you had not misinterpreted what I originally said...

I do not see how saying nasty things about people behind their back is any better than doing so to their face, is all. I think it's worse, in fact. Far worse.

And I'm not saying that you have to accept it, but acting like it gives you a free pass to be nasty isn't going to help matters at all, it only makes it worse.

There are ways to get that sort of stuff taken care of, and it's incredibly easy on the internet. However, if it's not ever brought to the attention of the people who CAN do something about it, what do you WANT us to do? We're not bloody psychic.

It's whole whole attitidue towards it i don't forgive. And what is bugging me is, you seem to be talking to me like we went through the same thing. Don't.

The first post was intended to make Neo feel a bit better.... because he's a great guy, and he has lots of friends here on KMC. I was simply trying to get it across that fact. Fine it was agreesive, but sorry i'm just like that. I will be agreesive to defend and help my friends. I'm not going to suppress that.

I'm not posting in respose to anymore, i'm going over memories i want to forget.

Originally posted by EvilAngel
All due repest, i started nothing.

So when's your 1st date set?

Friday!

Originally posted by Lana
Not everything that gets reported is deemed enough of a problem where it actually needs to be dealt with.

That is exactly the problem with your "system"

People shouldn't have to wait before you deem it worthy.

Originally posted by Sol Valentine
Friday!

Where you gonig to take her?

McDonalds 😐

....Well... if she likes McDonalds i guess...

Originally posted by Sol Valentine
McDonalds 😐

Originally posted by EvilAngel
....Well... if she likes McDonalds i guess...

Nah, I'm joking.

Originally posted by Sol Valentine
McDonalds 😐

I was expecting something more.....lavish.

Thank god for that 😐

Where are you taking her?