Divorce Issue...

Originally posted by Shelbert Lemon
We share our children. Thanks but I dont need to take that course.

Thanks again...this is very useful to both party...If you time please visit that site..i know it can help your recovery....thanks

Originally posted by vinz07
Thanks again...this is very useful to both party...If you time please visit that site..i know it can help your recovery....thanks

Originally posted by Kinneary
I don't agree with alimony. If he or she didn't earn it, then he or she shouldn't get any of it. Prenup like a son of a *****.

Originally posted by debbiejo
I was talking before the 1960's when most women didn't work outside the home. They gave up their education to raise their children. Without alimony, they would of starved.

alimony does seem like a relic of those days

Originally posted by inimalist
alimony does seem like a relic of those days

Originally posted by debbiejo
It's pretty difficult to get alimony today. It must be proved in court that it is needed.

interesting, I think I am in favor of that...

the only experience I have with any of this stuff is with a good friend of mine. His kids were given to the mother (Meth junkie, constant trouble with the law) simply because she was the mother and he had a hell of a time getting them back.

lol, not even close to what you were talking about, but I'm trying to contribute 🙂

Well the court system is really screwed up. It's become a game of money and greed. Keeping parties in court pays their bills.

interesting, if depressing. I had never thought of it that way...

Oh the stories I could tell talking to professionals. Many court, country, and state programs are not what they seem. They make it seem as if they are doing a great public service to family, but the bottom line is that of MONEY. Money to the state, court and country. This told to me by professionals that decided to leave the system because of the bureaucracy of red tape, like an onion, but when pealed away uncovers the truth. The truth is keep people fighting in the court system for what ever matter, because it lines their pockets. The truth is that IT IS NOT about what is good for the people, but MONEY.

Divorce is for quitters.

That's not very nice. If you don't love somebody, why should you be forced to stay with them.

Divorce is healthy for many. Would some of you want to stick it out forever when you don't love someone? Forever is a long long time.

Originally posted by The Grey Fox
That's not very nice. If you don't love somebody, why should you be forced to stay with them.

You shouldn't. That doesn't make the statement any less true.

there is nuthing SACRED about marriage. its an excuse often used by non sensical extremists to oppress women. the sacred part of marriade is not supernaturally ordained. but the fealing in between two lovers and in their perspectives. that exists with or WITHOUT marriage. its nothing more than a contract. nuthing sacred about it. and divorce is FAR better than living without love for you and your kids.

Originally posted by leonheartmm
its nothing more than a contract.

Originally posted by debbiejo
Divorce is healthy for many. Would some of you want to stick it out forever when you don't love someone? Forever is a long long time.

Healthy for MANY???...oh c'mon...can cause psychological effects to both parties......

^^ Yeah, if you stay in an unhappy environment..

Originally posted by vinz07
Healthy for MANY???...oh c'mon...can cause psychological effects to both parties......

Originally posted by Shelbert Lemon
We did fine on our own. We split up near 3 years ago and everyone is doing good. DId you take that course, and why do you tell others to take it?

This course is very helpful to both parties for their recovery especially their children. They are affected in this dilemma....

Originally posted by vinz07
This course is very helpful to both parties for their recovery especially their children. They are affected in this dilemma....