1. We're men. We don't mean to say we like the other woman or that we don't like the woman we're with but we just like to look. shrug
2. Because, in my experience, women don't outright say what they are mad about. You expect us to figure it out and in all honesty it would be easier if you told us so we could fix it.
Originally posted by Röland
1. We're men. We don't mean to say we like the other woman or that we don't like the woman we're with but we just like to look. shrug2. Because, in my experience, women don't outright say what they are mad about. You expect us to figure it out and in all honesty it would be easier if you told us so we could fix it.
B. As I said before, 99% of the time the problem is right in front of a guys face so why shouldn't we leave it up to them to figure it out?
Originally posted by Yuna_And_Tidus
A. Well that still doesn't make any sense to me, really. I mean it's not like men have to keep their attention and eyes focused solely on the woman they are with BUT when they are out in public or wherever and they noticeably look at asses and boobs...it's a bit frustrating. I wonder if they'd like that we watched men's butts when we're behind them.B. As I said before, 99% of the time the problem is right in front of a guys face so why shouldn't we leave it up to them to figure it out?
As long as the guy you're with likes how you look and thinks you're sexy, then is it really such a big deal? If I was with my girlfriend at the mall and she looked at some other guy I would joke about it with her but I wouldn't care or make a big deal out of it.
Because that's just retarded, "You hurt me but I'm not gonna tell you what you did because it will somehow make me proud of you if you figure it out on your own." Why not let us know about it so we can fix it instead of making a game out of it?
Re: Men....
Originally posted by Yuna_And_TidusI speak from experience. Women are just as bad as men are at doing this. They swear to have eyes only for you, to be loyal, next thing you know you are deserted.
Why do you look at other women and deny it? Lol...I have to know. What's wrong with having eyes only for the person you are with. Also, why are you too stubborn to notice what it is that makes women mad when it's right in front of your face?Enlighten me...men confuse the hell out of me.
Life sucks, get a helmet. If your BF is doing this, address it before it becomes too serious of an issue.
Re: Men....
Originally posted by Yuna_And_Tidus
Why do you look at other women and deny it? Lol...I have to know. What's wrong with having eyes only for the person you are with. Also, why are you too stubborn to notice what it is that makes women mad when it's right in front of your face?Enlighten me...men confuse the hell out of me.
If it bothers you that much, then say something. Matt checks out other girls sometimes, sometimes it bothers me sometimes it doesnt. Every guy does it, its their nature to look at another woman. It doesnt make them an as*hole or a pig. Nor does it mean they're gonna go chasing after that girl and try to f*ck around with her, some guys do that and need to be shot. Thats just what guys do. It, most of the time, doesnt mean anything.
Originally posted by Yuna_And_Tidus
Why do you look at other women and deny it? Lol...I have to know. What's wrong with having eyes only for the person you are with. Also, why are you too stubborn to notice what it is that makes women mad when it's right in front of your face?Enlighten me...men confuse the hell out of me.
I check out other guys sometimes when I have a bf. It never hurts to look.shrug
Originally posted by BlackSunshine
If it bothers you that much, then say something. Matt checks out other girls sometimes, sometimes it bothers me sometimes it doesnt. Every guy does it, its their nature to look at another woman. It doesnt make them an as*hole or a pig. Nor does it mean they're gonna go chasing after that girl and try to f*ck around with her, some guys do that and need to be shot. Thats just what guys do. It, most of the time, doesnt mean anything.
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Re: Re: Men....
Originally posted by BlackSunshineand vice versa for the ladies.
If it bothers you that much, then say something. Matt checks out other girls sometimes, sometimes it bothers me sometimes it doesnt. Every guy does it, its their nature to look at another woman. It doesnt make them an as*hole or a pig. Nor does it mean they're gonna go chasing after that girl and try to f*ck around with her, some guys do that and need to be shot. Thats just what guys do. It, most of the time, doesnt mean anything.
Originally posted by Lanalooking is fine, as long as it not leering. the problem starts when said gazer, man or woman, doesnt realize where the line is that you do not cross.
What's so bad about simply looking? It doesn't mean they're going to cheat on you. Just because you're with someone it doesn't mean the rest of the population of the planet vanishes.If you have a problem with it, then try actually saying something.
Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
looking is fine, as long as it not leering. the problem starts when said gazer, man or woman, doesnt realize where the line is that you do not cross.
Except there is no one single line and everyone else is going to have a different idea of what is and isn't acceptable.
So, as I said, if someone has a problem then they need to actually talk about it.