Question for the ladies...

...OK, this has been bothering me terribly, as of late. Whenever I got to a party or a nightclub with one or two of my boys or alone, there are several females that just spend the entire night posturing. You ask them politely to dance and they're like "No thanks." And please, ladies, don't get angry, I said SOME women do this. They just stand up the entire night and refuse to dance with anybody or simply refuse to dance. It's not like we're expecting to take you home after a few dances and bought drinks. So, c'mon and dance, ladies. We're here to have fun. Oh, and I expect many people to say that lots of dudes don't even ask the ladies to dance and while that might be true, that's not the issue right now.

So any females willing to answer my question?

Well, some girls are stuck up. They're just naturally.....bitches.

I really didn't want to think that. But come on. This makes it really difficult for a nigga who's just trying to have fun.

Some women don't want to dance with strange men they don't know.

They may not like you.😬

Originally posted by Grinning Goku
I really didn't want to think that. But come on. This makes it really difficult for a nigga who's just trying to have fun.

Well, some girls honestly think, "Oh, I'm too good for any of these people, blah blah blah, my vagina smells like pine blah"

So, you can't help it. If you're trying to have fun, hey, go rub it in their face that you can have fun without them!

Then why bother going to a party or nightclub? You know guys will be there...Ya know, I it is their right. But I mean, come on. When I go to a party, I have my heart set on dancing with several different ladies. It's not like I'll be groping them or like they'll catch an STD or anything.

Originally posted by Grinning Goku
Then why bother going to a party or nightclub? You know guys will be there...Ya know, I it is their right. But I mean, come on. When I go to a party, I have my heart set on dancing with several different ladies. It's not like I'll be groping them or like they'll catch an STD or anything.

What is the question? 😑

Originally posted by LethalFemme
They may not like you.😬

It's not about liking me or not. Chances are I won't even know many of them. I mean, I can take no for an answer. I like to dance with lots of girls whether they're fat, skinny, pretty or ugly. It's just dancing. Everyone just wants to have fun.

Originally posted by Grinning Goku
It's not about liking me or not. Chances are I won't even know many of them. I mean, I can take no for an answer. I like to dance with lots of girls whether they're fat, skinny, pretty or ugly. It's just dancing. Everyone just wants to have fun.

Damn right! I love to dance. I'd dance with you, and I don't even know ya.

seriously...I don't know what the problem is. I'm dork and I am not afraid to admit that and I rarely got turned down...you sound like a smooth brotha so your chances would be better than mine...maybe it is the club you are going to...try a different one.

Originally posted by C. C. Cowgirl
[b]What is the question? 😑 [/B]

You're the only person that didn't recognize the question. I'm asking why some girls are so standoffish in a party setting. That shit is cool for day to day life, but at some point, you gotta cut loose. That's just my humble opinion.

Originally posted by dadudemon
seriously...I don't know what the problem is. I'm dork and I am not afraid to admit that and I rarely got turned down...you sound like a smooth brotha so your chances would be better than mine...maybe it is the club you are going to...try a different one.

I'm not smooth. It's not about being smooth; it's about having fun, man. No strings attached. I wine up on you, you wine up on me and then, I move on. I'm not trying to pick any chicks up. Ya feel me?

Originally posted by Grinning Goku
I'm not smooth. It's not about being smooth; it's about having fun, man. Not strings attach. I wine up on you, you wine up on me and then, I move on. I'm not trying to pick any chicks up. Ya feel me?

Well, that doesn't change the fact that I am a dork. Like I said, it might be the dance club...

Or it could be a group of man haters who specifically go to dance clubs so they can turn down men....yes... yes...that's it!

I go out dancing. But I won't dance with guys that ask me. I don't feel comfortable.

Originally posted by BeautiflDisastr
I go out dancing. But I won't dance with guys that ask me. I don't feel comfortable.

Originally posted by BeautiflDisastr
I go out dancing. But I won't dance with guys that ask me. I don't feel comfortable.

I have a suggestion, try a gay male bar. You can dance and no creepy, scary guys will be asking you to. 🙄

Originally posted by Grinning Goku
I have a suggestion, try a gay male bar. You can dance and no creepy, scary guys will be asking you to.

Yeah right dude...gay men know how to party.

Originally posted by Grinning Goku
You're the only person that didn't recognize the question

I guess that makes me the dumb blonde then ✅