Re: Question for the ladies...
Originally posted by Grinning GokuI am man, but I know what this is about. they are on display. And you weren't good enough for them. If they stood there all night, they saw no one worth talking to.
...OK, this has been bothering me terribly, as of late. Whenever I got to a party or a nightclub with one or two of my boys or alone, there are several females that just spend the entire night posturing. You ask them politely to dance and they're like "No thanks." And please, ladies, don't get angry, I said SOME women do this. They just stand up the entire night and refuse to dance with anybody or simply refuse to dance. It's not like we're expecting to take you home after a few dances and bought drinks. So, c'mon and dance, ladies. We're here to have fun. Oh, and I expect many people to say that lots of dudes don't even ask the ladies to dance and while that might be true, that's not the issue right now.So any females willing to answer my question?
best thing to do is pretend they are not there, intrigue them.
Originally posted by C. C. Cowgirl
[b]Mine was meant as a rejection example ✅ [/B]
ZOMG!!!11!!1!! ZING!! LOL!! 😆 😆 😆
You would be great in those meetings with those a-holes I work with...
Anyway,
Grinning Goku, I saw your pictures in the picture thread...you look like a smooth fella...nothing wrong with smooth.
Okay. maybe I should put it a different way. You look like a handsome fella and you can put your words together well. You shouldn't be having problems dancing with anyone who actually wants to dance.
Try wearing deodorant. If you do that already...are you sweatin' your balls off? Girls will automatically think "get the hell out of here sweaty man" if you approach them, looking like a pool party.
Also, how's your breath? The worse your breath is, that further away it can be smelled.
If you have done all of that and they still reject you, try pumping some iron for about a year...the added muscles will at least attract a few girls...if that still doesn't work, join a dance class...then everyone will dance with you!!! HOORAY!
Re: Question for the ladies...
Originally posted by Grinning Goku
...OK, this has been bothering me terribly, as of late. Whenever I got to a party or a nightclub with one or two of my boys or alone, there are several females that just spend the entire night posturing. You ask them politely to dance and they're like "No thanks." And please, ladies, don't get angry, I said SOME women do this. They just stand up the entire night and refuse to dance with anybody or simply refuse to dance. It's not like we're expecting to take you home after a few dances and bought drinks. So, c'mon and dance, ladies. We're here to have fun. Oh, and I expect many people to say that lots of dudes don't even ask the ladies to dance and while that might be true, that's not the issue right now.So any females willing to answer my question?
maybe that particular lady doesn't like or don't trust you..we don't usually talk or dance with guys which we don't trust or like..but bitches do...so next time try to ask some bitches to dance..they would definitely welcome you... 😈
heres what you do....walk into the club, and pay the hot women no never mind. they are so used to being fawned over, they will definitely notice you not giving them the eye. they will be intrigued, "whats so special about this guy?" and sometimes they will approach you.
this is a tried and true method, I have used it several times. success rate? 50/50.
Re: Question for the ladies...
Originally posted by Grinning Goku
...OK, this has been bothering me terribly, as of late. Whenever I got to a party or a nightclub with one or two of my boys or alone, there are several females that just spend the entire night posturing. You ask them politely to dance and they're like "No thanks." And please, ladies, don't get angry, I said SOME women do this. They just stand up the entire night and refuse to dance with anybody or simply refuse to dance. It's not like we're expecting to take you home after a few dances and bought drinks. So, c'mon and dance, ladies. We're here to have fun. Oh, and I expect many people to say that lots of dudes don't even ask the ladies to dance and while that might be true, that's not the issue right now.So any females willing to answer my question?
Dancing is fun! Chances are the girls that stand around all night are the ones that are too shy or they have amazingly jealous prat type boyfriends that spend most of the night spiking other peoples drinks.
Of course it could be that they think you look weird 😑
Originally posted by Rogue Jedi50? I don't know about that one.
heres what you do....walk into the club, and pay the hot women no never mind. they are so used to being fawned over, they will definitely notice you not giving them the eye. they will be intrigued, "whats so special about this guy?" and sometimes they will approach you.this is a tried and true method, I have used it several times. success rate? 50/50.
But, I can personally tell you the greatest burn ever pulled on a girl, who thought she was the s**t, and kept turning guy after guy down......
This girl was hot...she was smoking, RJ. And the worst part is she was sending out "the vibe"...as if "boys, someone talk to me, I'm pretty cool; and it just might be your night".
Anyway, I told my friends that she needed to come back down to earth...very similar to the "you lost that loving feeling" scene in Top Gun, but not NEARLY as dramatic.
After each guy would make a pass, she would roll her eyes in disdain, as if to say, "ugh, please". You know the look. All guys do, that have been turned down by a hottie who perceives you to NOT be in her league. Plus, when she's with all her friends, it makes you feel that much worse, when you start hearing her friends chuckle as you walk away. Witnessing this, I thought it was time for us guys to turn one around on her....
My firends and I had been doing this gig for quite some time too.
Anyway, me and my boys slowly position ourselves around her and her friends...discretely, inconspicuously as if we don't know each other.
I slowly walk up, giving her the Bobby D charm, and you can even smell her vanity and my rejection coming from a mile away. Inside she's saying: "oh God, please".
This must take place in a bar/club with real loud music so she can barely hear your question, which is the key.
I ask her to dance, knowing full well she going to say no, right.
Sure enough, I get turned down. And my reply:
"No....no I didn't ask you to dance". The next line must come out loud: "I said you look fat in your pants!" That's the cue for my boys to bust out laughing at her, AND her friends.
BOOM-SHAKA-LAKA!
They all walk away knowing they've been just totally burned, especially when they think we're all strangers.
Works like a charm, RJ. 😉