Re: Re: If you found nude photos...
Originally posted by DARKLORDCAEDUS
Not in the least. What someone did in their past isn't going to affect me at all. Unless I found out that that person is a rapist or murderer, then thats a entirely different story. I do have some nude pictures of a gf and her ex, but it doesn't bother me seeing that happened in the past and you really shouldn't let nude pics from past relationships hurt you.
Agreed. And I'd probably gush something stupid like: "Wow! Hon, look how skinny you were then!?"
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Originally posted by Syren
I'd be hurt. I'd know I was being irrational but that wouldn't stop the feelings of jealousy and betrayal, that's just the way it is.I wouldn't see or treat him any differently, though, that'd be overstepping the boundaries.
I found a picture of my fella and his ex girlfriend sucking face and I tore it up, because I figured he no longer had any need for it ermm
...which is never going to take away the visual and mental memory he has and will always have of her, which is worse.
Yes, he may love you (now). But trust me on this one, memories remain (forever).
Originally posted by BobbyD
...which is never going to take away the visual and mental memory he has and will always have of her, which is worse.Yes, he may love you (now). But trust me on this one, memories remain (forever).
I know, don't worry 😂
Like I said, I had an irrational moment. I feel silly for tearing up that picture and I felt even sillier at the time, but I still did it.
We've been together for a while now and the feelings of jealousy have all but disappeared. I think they mainly stemmed from nervousness, towards the beginning, about where we were headed 🙂
Originally posted by Syren
I know, don't worry 😂Like I said, I had an irrational moment. I feel silly for tearing up that picture and I felt even sillier at the time, but I still did it.
We've been together for a while now and the feelings of jealousy have all but disappeared. I think they mainly stemmed from nervousness, towards the beginning, about where we were headed 🙂
pfft, id rather have pictures than memories
videos are best however 🙂
Originally posted by debbiejo
If your girl took pictures for [B]you and then you split up, should her new guy think she is a tramp when he finds them? [/B]
Yes. There are some things that should be reserved for her husband. If a woman poses for pictures for some dude she should be pretty sure it's her husband/future husband. Years later, after she's given the best years of her body to men who didn't deserve her,she marry's some dude who thinks he's got an angel. All the time there's a guy somewhere out there who's got pictures and video of your wife. 🙁
It's happened recently to a good buddy of mine, hence the thread.