Originally posted by eggmayo
I'd probably be jealous and that's about it. I don't see an issue, unless they refused to do it for you 😉
True, I'd have more of a problem with it if said wife refused to take pics for me. However, I think my friends dissapointment stems from having another man "Steal his thunder" so to speak. He really believes this guy robbed him the experience. He'd planned to ask her to pose for him, but now... 😘
Originally posted by CreaseVideo?? 😱 😂
Yes. There are some things that should be reserved for her husband. If a woman poses for pictures for some dude she should be pretty sure it's her husband/future husband. Years later, after she's given the best years of her body to men who didn't deserve her,she marry's some dude who thinks he's got an angel. All the time there's a guy somewhere out there who's got pictures and video of your wife. 🙁
It's happened recently to a good buddy of mine, hence the thread.
Oh wow..
Originally posted by Crease
Yes. There are some things that should be reserved for her husband. If a woman poses for pictures for some dude she should be pretty sure it's her husband/future husband. Years later, after she's given the best years of her body to men who didn't deserve her,she marry's some dude who thinks he's got an angel. All the time there's a guy somewhere out there who's got pictures and video of your wife. 🙁
It's happened recently to a good buddy of mine, hence the thread.
I don't agree with all that 'saving yourself' crap. Just my personal opinion, so no offence to the virgins etc.
My fella and I have been together for almost three years and I'd pose for him if he was interested. I have no idea if we'll ever get married and it's not something we think about, to be fair. Doesn't mean I won't give myself to him completely.
Originally posted by Syren
I don't agree with all that 'saving yourself' crap. Just my personal opinion, so no offence to the virgins etc.My fella and I have been together for almost three years and I'd pose for him if he was interested. I have no idea if we'll ever get married and it's not something we think about, to be fair. Doesn't mean I won't give myself to him completely.
We're not talking about "saving yourself". Expecting a woman over the age of 16 to be a virgin is VERY unrealistic. But, as a man, regardless of whether or not your fella admits it, it takes something away from it when your wife has already had certain experiences. Part of what makes a successful relationship is knowing how to please your partner. Not just physically, but emotionally and mentally as well. Women want to be made to feel special, men want to be made to feel that their wife is special. Not your average chick, so to speak.
I believe that by the time you're contemplating marriage, a man (or woman) should be able to sit down and ask anything under the sun of their spouse and not be afraid of the answer. Or if he/she will tell you the truth or not. However, I've never asked any of my girlfriends and now my wife how many men they'd been with. Not that I don't wonder. Hell, I'm dying to know. But I'm scared shit of the answer.
I'm absolutely dying to hear the opinions of more female posters...Are me and my buddy just jackasses for thinking the way we do or do some of you agree? I know this may hit home for a few but I am in no way trying to demean any of your life experiences. I simply know (from debating with my own wife) that men and women have VERY different views on a great many things, and I think this is one of them.