Originally posted by Rogue JediAltogether.
Public or private?
Originally posted by King of BladesI was just curious. I don't frequent this part of kmc that often. I'm mainly a comic vs. guy. That's what drew me in originally.
I don't know. Is that an actual consideration, or are you possibly beginning a new topic? An homage to yourself?Who are you?
Originally posted by SyrenYou and I talked about this, long ago. You know, before you started looking on me in disgust even though I have never done anything to you on a personal level to warrant such hate. 😉
You certainly get people talking. I dunno whether I'd want to be well known unless it was in a positive light 😬
Oddly enough, I have done nothing to most who look on me in a negative fashion. And most of those who I have wronged, it was a "shit happens" situation.
Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
You and I talked about this, long ago. You know, before you started looking on me in disgust even though I have never done anything to you on a personal level to warrant such hate. 😉Oddly enough, I have done nothing to most who look on me in a negative fashion. And most of those who I have wronged, it was a "shit happens" situation.
See, that's not quite right. But then you're not going to be frank about yourself and you certainly won't see yourself as others do so that's forgiveable. You have irritated the **** out of me continuously for probably years now so you can imply that I only give you shit because other people do all you like, it's not factually true.
Of course you would think that everyone who looks on you in a negative fashion must be wrong. Why would you ever admit they could be right about you? As for those you have genuinely wronged, why do you get to say what sort of situation it was? Surely that's up to the wronged to decide?
You are so shockingly ignorant to your own faults.
Originally posted by Syren
why do you get to say what sort of situation it was? Surely that's up to the wronged to decide?
Irrelevant to your discussion but I'd like to point out that ALL the time, people think they have been wronged when they haven't. It's not necessarily delusion. It's more less classical "ego" preservation that occurs with almost every single person (even if they interpret the events as an affront to their character, it's still a form of ego preservation).
In those circumstances, the only way to truly tell is to get an almost apathetic, ignorant of the situation, objective third party, to decide if an actual wrong occurred.
I'm reminded of the hundreds of times I've observed a person interpret a statement in the most negative way possible, and then took offense...when there were no less than 3 or 4 other ways to interpret that statement.
Take this simply reply: "No, no. That's NOT what i meant." That statement can be twisted into something extremely negative like a fat joke, "you're ugly" joke, etc. When in reality, it could have been self-deprecating humor or a trillion other things other than an insult towards the person that received it. But the person that received it, especially those with low-self esteem, will generally relegate such statements into an insult and take offense.
I find this quite annoying.
/rant
Originally posted by Syren
See, that's not quite right. But then you're not going to be frank about yourself and you certainly won't see yourself as others do so that's forgiveable. You have irritated the **** out of me continuously for probably years now so you can imply that I only give you shit because other people do all you like, it's not factually true.Of course you would think that everyone who looks on you in a negative fashion must be wrong. Why would you ever admit they could be right about you? As for those you have genuinely wronged, why do you get to say what sort of situation it was? Surely that's up to the wronged to decide?
You are so shockingly ignorant to your own faults.
Honestly, I am not sure how my fan club "sees me." Frankly I have never cared enough to inquire.
I've irritated the shit outta you for years? K, I can accept that. You think I have done so on purpose? You think that one day (back when we were friends), I woke up and said "**** Kerry, I'm gonna irritate her and drive her away?"
Yes, it's up for the wronged to decide. To me, everything in life is a "shit happens" situation. People come, people go, feelings are hurt, backs are turned on one another, spite is born. Life goes on, yes? I don't hold on to shit, I have learned to let it go. The worst I have ever been wronged, (not gonna share, it was real life, not some net bullshit), I have forgiven them fully and have not one bad thing to say to them. Look at AC and I, dude had it in for me like no other, and I had done nothing to him. You think I would hold on to it if he contacted me? Nope. It'd all be water under the bridge to me. Hell, I'd buy him a beer if we ever happened to cross paths.
We are all ignorant to our own faults, some worse than others. But for someone to hate me as much as you do, when I have done nothing against them, dude, there's something not quite right there.