Love over the net

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Love over the net

I was having a discussion with a couple of friends the other day who were discussing whether or not you can fall in love over the Internet. (Or MSN etc) I was neutral and was wondering what other people thought.

Your thoughts. 🙂

yes

It's impossible, it's total bullshit. No one can ever fall in love like that. It's just for pathetic losers.

I've fallen in love with countless hot lesbian porn sites....does that count?

Originally posted by Bardock42
It's impossible, it's total bullshit. No one can ever fall in love like that. It's just for pathetic losers.
What makes you think that?

Can you...like someone in that way over the net?

If it's just treated as a place where you can meet someone like that, it's fine, also as a facilitator.

People who actually have "relationships" online with no intent or means to further it, though, that's silly.

Otherwise, I see no difference between meeting online then continuing to meet in real life and meeting first, then going long-distance.

-AC

I've met a few women online. We talk each and everyday.

Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
If it's just treated as a place where you can meet someone like that, it's fine, also as a facilitator.

People who actually have "relationships" online with no intent or means to further it, though, that's silly.

Otherwise, I see no difference between meeting online then continuing to meet in real life and meeting first, then going long-distance.

-AC

Yeah.

Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
If it's just treated as a place where you can meet someone like that, it's fine, also as a facilitator.

People who actually have "relationships" online with no intent or means to further it, though, that's silly.

Otherwise, I see no difference between meeting online then continuing to meet in real life and meeting first, then going long-distance.

-AC

That sounds reasonable and was the basis of his argument.

Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
If it's just treated as a place where you can meet someone like that, it's fine, also as a facilitator.

People who actually have "relationships" online with no intent or means to further it, though, that's silly.

Otherwise, I see no difference between meeting online then continuing to meet in real life and meeting first, then going long-distance.

-AC

The truth is you can never really know anyone on the net. What if the person is a rapist or a killer. It is very dangerous. Besides it is impossible to develope feelings without being physically near a person. It's just for sad losers who can't get any in real life, it doesn't mean anything. Only stupid pathetic idiots fall in love online. When you look at it rationally you will see that meeting a person in real life, maybe a bar, is the only real way of falling in love, you also know more about a person once you met them than you can ever after talking to them online. What if they lie to you and make shit up, if you don't see them you will never be sure whether they lie.

And 90% of people that meet other people on the net are child molesters and kill you when you meet them, that's a fact.

http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2006/02/06/eveningnews/main1286130.shtml

I've heard that everyone who connects to the internet infact rapes children.

This is supported by the fact that you are on the internet, Bardock.

Originally posted by BackFire
I've heard that everyone who connects to the internet infact rapes children.

I know...I just told you.

You said 90 percent, I said everyone.

Learn math.

Originally posted by Bardock42
It's impossible, it's total bullshit. No one can ever fall in love like that. It's just for pathetic losers.

My opinion on "love" over the net, um...what you said, except I mean it serious.

Originally posted by Bardock42
The truth is you can never really know anyone on the net. What if the person is a rapist or a killer. It is very dangerous. Besides it is impossible to develope feelings without being physically near a person. It's just for sad losers who can't get any in real life, it doesn't mean anything. Only stupid pathetic idiots fall in love online. When you look at it rationally you will see that meeting a person in real life, maybe a bar, is the only real way of falling in love, you also know more about a person once you met them than you can ever after talking to them online. What if they lie to you and make shit up, if you don't see them you will never be sure whether they lie.

And 90% of people that meet other people on the net are child molesters and kill you when you meet them, that's a fact.

http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2006/02/06/eveningnews/main1286130.shtml

They could. But what if they don't then when they actual meet what they have sad is true.

Using your beliefs then no they wont. But that can't always happen and they were honest and were themselves.

Originally posted by Bardock42
It's impossible, it's total bullshit. No one can ever fall in love like that. It's just for pathetic losers.
Says the pot to the kettle. 🙄

I've met many great friends on the net. The whole click is to be honest. Now I understand that in the beginning people aren't quite honest, but at some point they must be.............Meeeeeeee...Oh, I'm pretty much honest.....Gemini, ya know.........yapper!

Originally posted by debbiejo
Says the pot to the kettle. 🙄

I'm pretty sure that's the point.

Originally posted by B.A
I was having a discussion with a couple of friends the other day who were discussing whether or not you can fall in love over the Internet. (Or MSN etc) I was neutral and was wondering what other people thought.

Your thoughts. 🙂

As I've said in other threads based exactly on this topic: "It's impossible to fall completely in love over the internet."

There are things that are required for Love to happen that just don't happen over the Internet.

Anata wa wakarimasu ka.....

Originally posted by Quiero Mota
My opinion on "love" over the net, um...what you said, except I mean it serious.
Well, that's okay, my arguments are really superficial and stupid though.

Re: Love over the net

Originally posted by B.A
I was having a discussion with a couple of friends the other day who were discussing whether or not you can fall in love over the Internet. (Or MSN etc) I was neutral and was wondering what other people thought.

Your thoughts. 🙂

I wouldn't say it's impossible.

However.....I think it's more probable that you fall into infatuation, rather love at first. I think love is something you'd have to develop more, over time.

I wouldn't mind a relationship like that, I guess. I've met so many nice people here on KMC that actually respect me, and treat me sometimes, like an average human being.

Except Bardock.......