Love over the net

Started by B.A2 pages

Originally posted by InnerRise
As I've said in other threads based exactly on this topic: "It's impossible to fall completely in love over the internet."

There are things that are required for Love to happen that just don't happen over the Internet.

Anata wa wakarimasu ka.....

Like what?

Originally posted by B.A
Like what?
Like Chemistry.

You don't get that over the internet.

Commom interest and chemistry are 2 different things.

anata wa wakarimasu ka.....

Originally posted by chillmeistergen
I'm pretty sure that's the point.
Eventually it does come out......yes?

That is why, even if you weren't quite upfront in the beginning to be so....uhh haa.... ✅

Generally all is forgiven ........just is.....

Originally posted by InnerRise
Like Chemistry.

You don't get that over the internet.

Commom interest and chemistry are 2 different things.

anata wa wakarimasu ka.....

Well, you seem to support ACs view then basically. You realize that one can find someone they like very much, but to meet them and be with them physically is essential in the long run.

Originally posted by debbiejo
Eventually it does come out......yes?

That is why, even if you weren't quite upfront in the beginning to be so....uhh haa.... ✅

Generally all is forgiven ........just is.....

What the **** are you jabbering on about, woman?

Jabbering?

Denial? If you can somwhat connect with it then.....do so

Hmmm. Otherwaise......SHUT UP.

Originally posted by debbiejo
Jabbering?

Denial? If you can somwhat connect with it then.....do so

Hmmm. Otherwaise......SHUT UP.

🤨

Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
People who actually have "relationships" online with no intent or means to further it, though, that's silly.

I agree, unless it involves Debbie Jo.

Originally posted by InnerRise
Like Chemistry.

You don't get that over the internet.

Commom interest and chemistry are 2 different things.

anata wa wakarimasu ka.....

true words. face to face chemistry is different than connecting mentally on the net.

Yes it happen love over net.only be true to yourself

ofcourse it can happen. people are often{unless they have devious INTENTIONS} much more open on the net. usually being in person means you have an artificial persona, which is different from the real you. in quite a few aspects, that does not exist online and you can be more like you are when you are alone by yourself. you also have less conceptions of social "embarrasement" etc so its more natural and more topics are open for discussion. and it is easier to "communicate" as few or none can CUT in in your talks, nor do u have to look at expressions of others and change your stance likewise. the actualy CONTENT of the conveyed talk is giving more preferance online.

however, u cant really have a complete RELATIONSHIP without talking to people face to face and physically being with them, thats a fact.

Whilst I agree that the net has more anonymity and therefore greater freedom, it's not always used to be honest. Think of it like Fight Club, people sometimes use the net as a means to be how they see themselves, not how they actually are.

-AC

That's entirely too much work, bah humbug to that.

Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
Whilst I agree that the net has more anonymity and therefore greater freedom, it's not always used to be honest. Think of it like Fight Club, people sometimes use the net as a means to be how they see themselves, not how they actually are.

-AC

Indeed.

Originally posted by Bardock42
Well, you seem to support ACs view then basically. You realize that one can find someone they like very much, but to meet them and be with them physically is essential in the long run.

Holy crap, AC and IR agreeing on something?

I'm siding with those two, though. Yes, you can meet people over the net, but you need to meet them to further the relationship. Vice versa.

I don't agree with this statement though before that said that you're different over the internet. I for one am no different on the net than I am in real life. And if you're different to who you are when you meet someone, how's that going to work? You can't make a relationship work PROPERLY if you're trying to fake who you are at the same time. You need to be yourself.

I think the Net can produce love. Its happened. But its never complete until you meet.

But yes it happens.

I essentially agree with AC and IR.

Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
Whilst I agree that the net has more anonymity and therefore greater freedom, it's not always used to be honest. Think of it like Fight Club, people sometimes use the net as a means to be how they see themselves, not how they actually are.

-AC

but who are people really, the way THEY see themselves or the way the WORLD{i.e. you} see them? it depends on perspective