The Final Answer.

For those who remember, I've made two threads explaining my situation right now. One about my grandfather, the other about my parents. This third and final thread explains the full truth of what's been happening now.

To start, about my grandfather, I mentioned he had cancer for 18 months and he was scheduled to pass soon. Well, he did. A week ago last Monday, my dad came to me at 10pm and told me he passed away at 2pm Central, which is 3pm Eastern for me. However, he passed away two days earlier than expected. There was nothing I could do. We were hundreds of miles apart, so I wasn't there for him.

To end, my parents are really going through with a divorce. I found a sticky note in my mom's wallet with a divorce lawyer's name, and she plans to move back to Canada, this time however in Vancouver. I'd rather stay with my dad, however, it will take about 3-4 years for our permenant residancy to get going.

My life has been a total sh*t hole right now, and I don't know what to do. No, I'm not going to kill myself or turn emo over this, but right now I'm under a lot of pressure and I could use some advice.

Sorry to hear that shit man.

Parents suck.

Chill with your friends and take some time out for you man.

Originally posted by Rodgort
For those who remember, I've made two threads explaining my situation right now. One about my grandfather, the other about my parents. This third and final thread explains the full truth of what's been happening now.

To start, about my grandfather, I mentioned he had cancer for 18 months and he was scheduled to pass soon. Well, he did. A week ago last Monday, my dad came to me at 10pm and told me he passed away at 2pm Central, which is 3pm Eastern for me. However, he passed away two days earlier than expected. There was nothing I could do. We were hundreds of miles apart, so I wasn't there for him.

To end, my parents are really going through with a divorce. I found a sticky note in my mom's wallet with a divorce lawyer's name, and she plans to move back to Canada, this time however in Vancouver. I'd rather stay with my dad, however, it will take about 3-4 years for our permenant residancy to get going.

My life has been a total sh*t hole right now, and I don't know what to do. No, I'm not going to kill myself or turn emo over this, but right now I'm under a lot of pressure and I could use some advice.

ermmSee a counsellor or someone you can talk to. Or go for a run, figure things out etc. Sorry about your grandfather. And your parents divorce. Been down that road before... Sort of. It sucks. And I live in Vancouver, its actually pretty cool. petpet

Sorry to hear about your troubles.

Do things to get your mind off what's going on in your life. That always helps me.

Originally posted by Rodgort
For those who remember, I've made two threads explaining my situation right now. One about my grandfather, the other about my parents. This third and final thread explains the full truth of what's been happening now.

To start, about my grandfather, I mentioned he had cancer for 18 months and he was scheduled to pass soon. Well, he did. A week ago last Monday, my dad came to me at 10pm and told me he passed away at 2pm Central, which is 3pm Eastern for me. However, he passed away two days earlier than expected. There was nothing I could do. We were hundreds of miles apart, so I wasn't there for him.

To end, my parents are really going through with a divorce. I found a sticky note in my mom's wallet with a divorce lawyer's name, and she plans to move back to Canada, this time however in Vancouver. I'd rather stay with my dad, however, it will take about 3-4 years for our permenant residancy to get going.

My life has been a total sh*t hole right now, and I don't know what to do. No, I'm not going to kill myself or turn emo over this, but right now I'm under a lot of pressure and I could use some advice.

I feel for you man. My Grandma just passed away 2 days ago. She was the best Grandma I could have ever had, so I know how that feels. This will all pass. Just take care of yourself, you'll get through it.

I have been spending most of my time out with my friends just to get it off my mind and forget about it, and it has been working. A few of them went down the same road and constantly give me advice to get through it.

And yes, I'm thinking of seeing a counselor. Until my life starts tumbling back into place, I'm just going to keep talking with my friends, teachers, whoever.

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
I went through the same shit. My mom left when I was 10, and even though it was hard, we pulled through, me, my dad and sis. do you have any brothers or sisters?

I don't know my real dad, like I know who he is but I've never met him. He left when I was 6 months old.. I feel for ya.

Originally posted by Rodgort
I have been spending most of my time out with my friends just to get it off my mind and forget about it, and it has been working. A few of them went down the same road and constantly give me advice to get through it.

And yes, I'm thinking of seeing a counselor. Until my life starts tumbling back into place, I'm just going to keep talking with my friends, teachers, whoever.

I do have a sister, and we seem to talk about it everyday.

Best to u, my friend

Hang in there

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
you and your sis will grow closer through this, mark my word.

Just when you have kids remember what you went through and try not to make them go through it. Its the best.

Originally posted by The_Mayor
Just when you have kids remember what you went through and try not to make them go through it. Its the best.

QFT.

Also, don't cut...it just leaves scars of embarassment. If you must do something like that, try electrocution because it doesn't leave scars and it hurts A LOT more...and no permanent damage. I am actually serious about this.

Haha, weird but completely true.

Originally posted by dadudemon
QFT.

Also, don't cut...it just leaves scars of embarassment. If you must do something like that, try electrocution because it doesn't leave scars and it hurts A LOT more...and no permanent damage. I am actually serious about this.

"If you must hurt yourself, don't cut b/c of scars, instead electrocute yourself."

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Anyway, Rod, things will look up. Time heals all things.

Don't look back and keep going from here.. It can only go up from here.

Hang in there, borrow our strengths to make it through.

Originally posted by Rodgort
I know we will. We're pretty close as it is, but I know we can pull through it.

i feel for you to m Dad died when i was 2 month