Re: Re: Are you bi?
Originally posted by Schecter
i think that a 2 guy threesome is an expression of latent homosexuality, considering basic male reproductive instincts. in short, men dont share with other men. i believe that men who are able and willing to break down this common psychological barrier are open to much more than just that. imho, of course.
In South Africa, gang rapes are very common. It is suspected that the men involved in the rape use it as a bonding experience.
Originally posted by GirlAnachronism
Sorry this is a question i got asked recently, i guess it says alot about my friends lol. anyways...
If you were a guy and you had a three some with another guy, does that make you bi???
If me and the other guy felt some manner of affection or had physical intimacy then yes. Otherwise no.
Now answer a question for me: Why is the point of that question?
Originally posted by Leo.M
You're only bi if you're attracted to both genders.Having a threesome doesn't make you bi, unless you did stuff with him. But if it was just the girl getting "nailed" then you're all good.
Originally posted by Kram3r
Explain the difference.
Sexual attraction is being attracted to a person sexually and wanting to have sex or do sexual things with them.
Originally posted by chillmeistergen
Being attracted to someone is not the same as having an appreciation of what is good looking and what is not, Kelly. Being attracted to someone means that you are actually attracted to them, get it? Meaning that they are more than just a casual interest or a point for comparison.
No, Kelly is right. This is coming down to just simply definitions to words.
Chil, there is a difference between being attracted to someone and being sexually attracted to someone.
I worked at an ice cream and dairy store called Braum's. There was a common older customer that used to come in who was on a long business trip from Wales . He spoke beautifully and was very well educated. I was ATTRACTED to him because of the afore mentioned traits. We became nice friends. I was FAR from being sexually attracted to him.
Again, this comes down to the definition of words.
If I were Chill, I'd be banging my head on a wall right about now.
Thinking something is hot is not attraction. Attraction is being drawn to something (in literal terms as well) (or to put it another way, want a relationship with him/her). If you aren't drawn to that person, you're not attracted to them. If you are, you are. I can think chill is hot but does that mean I want to **** him? No. If I said I was attracted to him, that would mean I want to **** him, or have some sort of relationship with him.
If people didn't understand this, bollocks to them.
I think we as humans like to be able to categorise and pigeon hole.... even sexuality... we like to think we are one thing or another, black, white, hetero, homo... lets be absolutely honest and logical here... all humans have so-called male and female chromosomes and hormones, and all humans are bisexual on a sliding scale of bisexuality... some are closer to one end or the other... most are nearer the middle but refuse to acknowledge this due to cultural or social or religious reasons... studies have shown that it is not unusual for ostensibly heterosexual persons to have homosexual fantasies, and vice versa.... personally I'm happy to acknowledge my bisexuality, while knowing myself to be on the hetero side of the centre... i find women more attractive that men, and most (but not all) of my relationships and sexual encounters have been hetero... unfortunately bi is seen as being neither one thing or the other.. in apparently hetero society it is seen as being a closet gay, in homo societies (especially the more militant political ones) it is seen as sitting on the fence or refusing to admit ones homosexuality.. but we are all bi... to a certain extent...
Originally posted by big gay kirk
I think we as humans like to be able to categorise and pigeon hole.... even sexuality... we like to think we are one thing or another, black, white, hetero, homo... lets be absolutely honest and logical here... all humans have so-called male and female chromosomes and hormones, and all humans are bisexual on a sliding scale of bisexuality... some are closer to one end or the other... most are nearer the middle but refuse to acknowledge this due to cultural or social or religious reasons... studies have shown that it is not unusual for ostensibly heterosexual persons to have homosexual fantasies, and vice versa.... personally I'm happy to acknowledge my bisexuality, while knowing myself to be on the hetero side of the centre... i find women more attractive that men, and most (but not all) of my relationships and sexual encounters have been hetero... unfortunately bi is seen as being neither one thing or the other.. in apparently hetero society it is seen as being a closet gay, in homo societies (especially the more militant political ones) it is seen as sitting on the fence or refusing to admit ones homosexuality.. but we are all bi... to a certain extent...
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This is probably the best post on this topic I have ever read