My aunt was killed today...

Started by Kelly_Bean3 pages

Originally posted by JediSamuraiMRB
So sorry to hear Kelly. My condolences to you and your family.

Thank you for your graditude. hug
Originally posted by Impediment
If it makes you feel any better, Kel, you still are one of the most scrumptious KMC'ers here.....naughty

..............and Raeann and I love you. heartbeat


Oh bull, silly. Thank you..that made me smile a lot.

I know what it's like not be able to see somebody one last time too, when my grandma passed away a few years ago my whole family went to the hospital to say our last good-byes and when I was going down the hall I just lost it, I couldn't handle it so I sat down and just cried. I regret not seeing her for the last time everyday of my life. I am sorry for you loss.

do you really want an open casket viewing it could be worse than you think, i know it may not seem like it but it could... there are other ways to have closure

sorry Kelly for your loss 🙁 hug

is my Kels okay on this new day? *sincere concern*

Originally posted by PINBALL
I know what it's like not be able to see somebody one last time too, when my grandma passed away a few years ago my whole family went to the hospital to say our last good-byes and when I was going down the hall I just lost it, I couldn't handle it so I sat down and just cried. I regret not seeing her for the last time everyday of my life. I am sorry for you loss.

I know what you mean. Sorry that you didn't get to see her 🙂 and thank you.
Originally posted by Morning_Glory
do you really want an open casket viewing it could be worse than you think, i know it may not seem like it but it could... there are other ways to have closure

sorry Kelly for your loss 🙁 hug


All my life, all of the funerals I have been to to my knowledge have been open casket. I get closure by seeing someone for the last time.I don't get closure in any other way, that's just how I am and I don't understand why. And thank you very much. hug
Originally posted by Ordained
is my Kels okay on this new day? *sincere concern*

I'm alright today. 🙂 Just got back early from the funeral home..there were hundreds of people there and the damn place was so small. I only got to go around once and get beside her casket and even then, I had a billion mile long line behind me so I couldn't stand there.

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Gosh..I hate being so unstrong. I can't stop crying today. It's like every song I hear about her reminds me of her because she was the most fantastic person. All of the sad songs say "good" meaningful things and they describe her perfectly...she was an angel..and now she's even more of one.

Yeah that happened to me when my Grandma passed away, I lost sleep I didn't do a whole lot socially for a while. What really helped me was being with my family (Cousins, Aunts, Uncles). It was easy to talk about it because we were all going through the same ordeal together.

Yeah..I love my family, they're so strong and I don't even know how. :]

Thankfully I'm doing a bit better today, haven't cried today but I've thought about her a lot. I'm sure I'll do that quite often. 🙂

Really sorry to hear about this, Kelly 🙁

Good to hear that you're feeling better hug

Thank you. hug

I don't think her memory will ever go away, I think about my Grandma all the time, I wouldn't want to forget. I just think about all the good times.

Oh I definitely know I'll think about her a lot and that her memory will never fade. She was too good of a person for that to ever happen. 😍

I'm sorry for your loss, Kelly. One of my close group of friends died in the same way in November last year and it's one of the most difficult things to deal with because it doesn't make any sense. If you need to talk hug

You're completely right, doesn't make any sense at all. 🙁 Thank you doll. hug

Here is the obituary:
http://www.kystandard.com/cgi-bin/storyviewnew.cgi?091+section+Obituaries
Here is a picture of the wreck and article:
http://www.thespringfieldsun.com/pages/front/story_2.asp