Originally posted by JacopeX
Oh yes, i'm ready for this.You see, Youth has really gone to the shitter now days. Just look around you. Look how children have been given advice throughout years on abstinence, drugs, and many other things, yet many can't seem to get it through their heads. Generation after generation have many failed to meet the standard. Why is teen pregnancy still a problem, as well as drugs and drinking among teens? For many many reasons. This will lead how it occurs and the stupidity behind it all.
I observe people my age on their behavior and the causes of such behaviors.
As I said, I am done debating on religion in my latest post in the forum.
Dude, you obviously are not seeing what I am trying to say. She was not by the way raped. At a young age, you can easily not get pregnant. When a teen gets pregnant which is caused by intercourse, then that is their fault. I fail to see any reason for it, period and no I doubt she was raped. I have been in Argentina long enough to see that rape is not big in there and I fail to see how can she get raped many times. I pretty much find it ironic of the mother to support the decision of keeping the children if she is too young to nursher children if she was raped or not.
When I read a report of teens getting pregnant which was not caused by rape, I can't help but just not feel bad for them at all. Decisions? I find those decisions pretty stupid to have sex at and having to face concequences that lie ahead. I can go on and on but this is all I must say.
Can someone tell this guy to STFU?
Of course not, why bother. 🙄
Um, please explain to me exactly what kids are taught about sex, alcohol, and drugs. In the US, it's basically nothing. They're treated as such taboo subjects. "Don't do drugs, they're bad", with almost nothing about WHY they are bad. "Don't drink", with nothing about the fact that in moderation it's fine. "Don't have sex", with no education on how to have sex safely, birth control, and consequences of unsafe sex.
Thus there's underage binge drinkers, kids who do drugs, and kids who have unprotected sex. Why? Because all they're taught is that they shouldn't do it, and teenagers like to rebel against what they're told they shouldn't do. People seem to think that any sex ed beyond "abstinence-only" is going to give kids ideas. Well, teenagers are going to have sex. Pretending it doesn't happen doesn't make it go away, but as a result there's so many teenagers that simply don't know about safe sex and/or cannot get birth control for themselves. And THEN we have the fact that people seem to think that everyone else should be held to their own moral standard, so we have cases of girls and women who are pregnant, know they can't raise the child, and want to abort, but face judgment from everyone around them for being sluts because they should have known better.
And this isn't a problem only in the US. Many countries around the world who are much more religious countries have similar issues, which is why we end up with cases like this 16 year old girl with 7 children.
Also, you seem to be putting all of the blame on this girl for getting pregnant. I'm pretty sure she did not impregnate herself as it takes two to tango, so to speak. The guys she slept with are just as responsible for the fact that she got pregnant. Nor do you seem to know anything about rape, it seems. Most rapes go unreported, and also most of the time when a woman is raped? It is by someone that she knew and was familiar with - a friend, neighbor, family member. And I'd say that if she was having sex THAT young, I do find it likely that she was coerced into it. Most 13 year olds are not interested in sex.
Personally, I find it rather disgusting that you're judging her and solely her, when there's so many other things that contributed to this happening that you seem to happily want to ignore, and the fact that the girl is doing what she can to support her children, even though she's still a kid herself.