My colleague wants me to ask this in the forums, damn nosy bastard "If a man has money is it dishonest to use that money to impress or attract girls?" i PERSONALLY THINK THAT IT IS UP TO THE GUY. whoops caps key hit. I think a guy who uses money to impress girls will use it as a crutch and will only be able to attract girl who like the money. Then again by flashing the green you will be able to attract the gold diggers but will you repel the ones who are genuinly good girls?
Back in the day when a chick was being elusive or mind bending I'd just ignore her and maybe hook up with one of her friends. Then suddely I'd become a contender for a future drunken make out session, or even secks in my college days.
Someone once said, "If you want to f*** the prom queen, then she's gotta find out that you made out with her best friend underneath the bleachers."
Originally posted by Bardock42Why do you somehow love to be a conspicuous ass hole and answer things that are not even directed to you at all? You see, you know very well my question was towards Lord Feron, but of course, as the ass hole that you are who jacks off to his own ego, make a very unnecessary statement. And yes, you can speak idiot by understanding it's informal characteristics. Which is why I shouldn't continue speaking to you. It's like talking sense into a mule basically.
Assuming I can still speak "idiot" as fluently as the last time I talked to you, I would say the answer is "because you are a moron".
Cynical douche.
Re: Re: The flowers and the bees.
Originally posted by JacopeX
Yes, I why don't I get anywhere? 😬
Yeah, hope you don't talk like that... anyways I kinda believe that being nice is not what you should focus on. Nice is good but deef do not show your complete nicness up front. I think it is better for them to earn being, like you wont be super nice to someone for no reason no matter how attracted you to them. Like nay relationship they have to earn your trust and your respect. Then you can be nice also don't be nice/pussy you got to be nice but flirtatish in a way. If your just nice all the time your gonna get used and your image of possible dude to have a relationship or bang will go out the window. She is gonna think of you like a smurf, nice cute lil thing but never think of you more then that.
Originally posted by Lord FeronTo tell you the truth, I actually noticed a very interesting yet blasphemous discovery. You see, personaly and accordingly to others, I am a very Nice, Intersting, wit, and very funny and fun type of person to speak to. All my life, I would follow the words of my father and just be myself besides being someone i'm not, AKA, a jerk. Before at a young age (middle school), I would do excatly the opposite and that is how I got attention from girls and people. But when I decided to change and go back to just being me, no one respected me nor wanted to talk to me.....But why exactly?
My colleague wants me to ask this in the forums, damn nosy bastard "If a man has money is it dishonest to use that money to impress or attract girls?" i PERSONALLY THINK THAT IT IS UP TO THE GUY. whoops caps key hit. I think a guy who uses money to impress girls will use it as a crutch and will only be able to attract girl who like the money. Then again by flashing the green you will be able to attract the gold diggers but will you repel the ones who are genuinly good girls?
I moved to this new place in a school with new people and guess what.....I made alot more friends then I ever would in the course of a year.....Ironic? Yes. It easily proves my old town is nothing but filled with a bunch of superficial idiots who think for no one but themselves. Now I understand my past relationships were bullshit and teenage relationships are bullshit as well. I am glad to have friends who think exactly like me and see things the way I do. I actually being the cool, outgoing, funny, and smart type of guy that excepts anyone as a friend. I just wish can be more like that, but hey, it is not up to me at all now is it?
Originally posted by =Tired Hiker=
Back in the day when a chick was being elusive or mind bending I'd just ignore her and maybe hook up with one of her friends. Then suddely I'd become a contender for a future drunken make out session, or even secks in my college days.Someone once said, "If you want to f*** the prom queen, then she's gotta find out that you made out with her best friend underneath the bleachers."
hmmm interesting theory. I had different thought in my mind. I didn't think of it your way. I made out with this girl a couple of weeks ago. Infront of everyone of her friends. It was a party of her friends or something.
I didn't think the other girls would want to hook up with me because I openly made myself available to one of their group. Kinda like "I don't want sloppy 2nd" mentality. You might be on to something. IS it to make them jealous or to show that hey there is a reason im desirable, your friend knew it you want to see what it is? Interesting...
Originally posted by JacopeX
Why do you somehow love to a conspicuous ass hole and answer things that are not even directed to you at all? You see, you know very well my question was towards Lord Feron, but of course, as the ass hole that you are who jacks off to his own ego, make a very unnecessary statement. And yes, you can speak idiot by understanding it's informal characteristics. Which is why I shouldn't continue speaking to you. It's like talking sense into a mule basically.Cynical douche.
There are several people here who just go ahead and speak their minds here especially if they can make a condescending stab at someone. They don't care if people think they are being rude, or mean, and there is nothing anyone can do but just take it with a grain of salt or they will have a field day on you. I guess it makes them feel empowered or something, and Bardock, in no way am I refering to you. 😐
Originally posted by =Tired Hiker=the whole ignore thing indeed works, I used it a bit differently.....If I were in a bar, and a hot girl walked in, while all the other guys were ogling her and stumbling to get to her, I would ignore her. eventually, she would see me, and see that I am not ogling her, and think "whats his deal? what makes him so special?" and SHE would come to ME. I used this numerous times, and it almost always worked.
Back in the day when a chick was being elusive or mind bending I'd just ignore her and maybe hook up with one of her friends. Then suddely I'd become a contender for a future drunken make out session, or even secks in my college days.Someone once said, "If you want to f*** the prom queen, then she's gotta find out that you made out with her best friend underneath the bleachers."
Originally posted by Lord Feron
hmmm interesting theory. I had different thought in my mind. I didn't think of it your way. I made out with this girl a couple of weeks ago. Infront of everyone of her friends. It was a party of her friends or something.I didn't think the other girls would want to hook up with me because I openly made myself available to one of their group. Kinda like "I don't want sloppy 2nd" mentality. You might be on to something. IS it to make them jealous or to show that hey there is a reason im desirable, your friend knew it you want to see what it is? Interesting...
It actually was not really a planned thing for me. The girl just happened to be around, or we happened to get to talking and then hooking up, and it just so happened that she was good friends with some other girl who I had the hots for who now became interested in me because I hooked up with her friend. It's just how it worked out. I only analyzed it after the fact. Therefore, it's just the way it is.
Also, some girls will not ever even talk to certain guys or even look at them unless they meet them formally, or have a mutual friend or acquaintance. So, hooking up with one of their less inhibited friends is a way to get to them.
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Originally posted by Lord FeronExcuse my typos. This computer I am using loads while I type, missing a couple words at times. 🙄
Yeah, hope you don't talk like that... anyways I kinda believe that being nice is not what you should focus on. Nice is good but deef do not show your complete nicness up front. I think it is better for them to earn being, like you wont be super nice to someone for no reason no matter how attracted you to them. Like nay relationship they have to earn your trust and your respect. Then you can be nice also don't be nice/pussy you got to be nice but flirtatish in a way. If your just nice all the time your gonna get used and your image of possible dude to have a relationship or bang will go out the window. She is gonna think of you like a smurf, nice cute lil thing but never think of you more then that.
I believe you can be nice and at the same time be interesting and accepting towards others THE RIGHT WAY. If they are just too arrogant to get along with a person just as you, whats the point of wasting your time with these people? You can socialize or get with any other girl with such a great personality. If they only accept you for other things that are really not right at all, then basically, shes a *****. Plain and simple. I can go on and on about it but for now. Earning respect is very simple and it can be done without having money. You show them you. It has worked with me before and it worked with others. And I don't have a car and I am finanically doing shit, yet I am doing fine.
I kind of agree with the flirtatious part. If you would like to have the nice personality, along with the sweet and flirty personality, it will really work as well. Just try to look as the social and outgoing person all at the same time. It is the confidence needed to do all this and I have very high confidence than ever. That is the key to being all this.
Overall, I agree with the last sentence. You can't let her be above you, but don't be above her either.....An equal relationship is perfect. 😉