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Originally posted by Lord Feron
Yeah, hope you don't talk like that... anyways I kinda believe that being nice is not what you should focus on. Nice is good but deef do not show your complete nicness up front. I think it is better for them to earn being, like you wont be super nice to someone for no reason no matter how attracted you to them. Like nay relationship they have to earn your trust and your respect. Then you can be nice also don't be nice/pussy you got to be nice but flirtatish in a way. If your just nice all the time your gonna get used and your image of possible dude to have a relationship or bang will go out the window. She is gonna think of you like a smurf, nice cute lil thing but never think of you more then that.
Maybe all the "nice guys" who go on about not getting girls, aren't getting anywhere as they are so damn whiny. 😐
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Originally posted by SanctuaryNice guys tend to let themselves be walked all over....
Yes to the first and no to the second? hmmThe second wasn't about all nice guys, just about the ones who are all "Why don't girls like me when I am so very very nice cry"
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Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
Nice guys tend to let themselves be walked all over....
This is all in general anyways. hmm
Re: The flowers and the bees.
Originally posted by Lord Feron
Questions about life and social dynamics. Girls: What attracts you to guys? More then just confidence being able to make you laugh. What exactly is it that attracts you to certain men. Specific way of loook? a way they act? a way they treat other people?Why do girls want to have something to chase rather then just being able to have it? (i can explian this more)
Why do guys treat girls badly sometimes? Is it because he know he can get away with it or is he just on to something I have no clue about?
Why are the so called nice guys apparently get no where? Or complain about gewtting no where what do girls not see in them?
For guys how do you treat girls when they are being elusive and mindbending?
http://www.killermovies.com/forums/showthread.php?threadid=461930&pagenumber=1
Re: Re: Re: Re: The flowers and the bees.
Originally posted by Sanctuary
Or you know, there's the idea that [b]not all girls are the same. shockMaybe all the "nice guys" who go on about not getting girls, aren't getting anywhere as they are so damn whiny. 😐 [/B]
I agree not all girls are the same, what maybe good for one girl another may reject in disgust. I think it is human nature to try and generalize but ppl as do I try and avoid that but its hard to have that mind set when you are approaching a problem. I want a solution but there are so many variables that not anyone solution can work because everyone's personality is different. I will settle for a solution that is effective at say 8-% i be happy.
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Originally posted by Sanctuary
I was actually going to mention that in an earlier post, that I meant most girls would like a nice guy, as long as he wasn't a pushover. ✅This is all in general anyways. hmm
I might have to agree with Rj I feel there are nice girls out there who will appreciate a person like them, a nice guy. I feel that nice girls a bit more rare then nice girls. From all my friends who are female I would say 1/5 of them are genuinly nice girls in the traditional sense. As gfor the nice guys i know. Prolly half a 1/3 to almost a half. So i just think that there are alot of fustrated nice guys out there that can't find the girl and they are too shy to go out and meet one and they end up with something unpleasent.
Originally posted by Lord Feron
I might have to agree with Rj I feel there are nice girls out there who will appreciate a person like them, a nice guy. I feel that nice girls a bit more rare then nice girls. From all my friends who are female I would say 1/5 of them are genuinly nice girls in the traditional sense. As gfor the nice guys i know. Prolly half a 1/3 to almost a half. So i just think that there are alot of fustrated nice guys out there that can't find the girl and they are too shy to go out and meet one and they end up with something unpleasent.