How many partners have you had sexual intercourse?

Originally posted by ScarletSpeed
Dadudemon said "you will break Gefallen_Engel's heart*, but he was really being sarcastic and talking about himself.

*sniffle sniffle* yup. But I was using her name because it would be true for her as well...*reads further down the page* yup. 😄

Originally posted by Peach
Sure, for some people. Not everyone will feel or think the same way. Just like not everyone will think that love is required for sex.

I wouldn't go so far as to say I'd never sleep with someone if I didn't love them, but I certainly don't think I'd be able to sleep with someone if I didn't have very strong feelings for them, whether it be love or friendship. Trust is a huge factor there and I'm not ****ing someone I don't already trust.

Your opinion is more than just opinion. For women (hold your breath everyone...here comes a scientific generalization), it is genetically programmed into them to desire a long term relationship AND women are more willing to have sex when they trust their potential partner. This is part of a complex process that ensures the greatest potential of successfully raising a child can occur.

I also have read that women enjoy sex (*cough* orgasm *cough*) more if they trust the person they have sex with. However, I have also read that women are having more and more non-committal sex. (One night stands and "conquering" just like males are generalized for.)

silly

whats going on in this thread?hmm

silliness

dangit i read few replies that i ran out of ideas what to type. most of them are i can agree on. im still looking for the 18th girl. its been 18 days for me since last conquest. and still on the process of painful hardwork trying to get to 18th pus sy. I hate myself for counting the days without fukn. and when the deed is done, in the back of my mind i think to myself...hmm whos gonna be the next girl?

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its gonna be 19th day for me without fukn in about 4 mins and still nothing. she aint givin any.

i now have 2 choices.
1.go back to my 13th girl or 14th girl? (reliable friends i can count on)
2.try harder, patience, within 2 weeks or 2 months of datin maybe 18th will give it to me

another thing i hate myself is that i see women as if they are just mathematical statistics.

gettin deep in here.

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Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
gettin deep in here.

We should get shovels.

don't forget your hip waders

Originally posted by gefallen_engel
don't forget your hip waders

you have a point there

Originally posted by Peach
Sure, for some people. Not everyone will feel or think the same way. Just like not everyone will think that love is required for sex.

I wouldn't go so far as to say I'd never sleep with someone if I didn't love them, but I certainly don't think I'd be able to sleep with someone if I didn't have very strong feelings for them, whether it be love or friendship. Trust is a huge factor there and I'm not ****ing someone I don't already trust.

Why, though? Why do you feel you need to be friends with, or trust, a person you're about to have sex with? What is it protecting you from or giving you?

Is it just the fact that you feel the act of sex isn't something to be done casually?

-AC

Originally posted by dadudemon
We should get shovels.

Originally posted by Disturbed Angel
Then it'll only be one and no more. 😛

Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
Why, though? Why do you feel you need to be friends with, or trust, a person you're about to have sex with? What is it protecting you from or giving you?

Is it just the fact that you feel the act of sex isn't something to be done casually?

-AC

Knowing what you know of me, you should know very well why I feel that way.

But basically, yes. I'm not into the idea of casual sex. I don't care if other people like it, if they do it's not my problem and I'm not knocking it or them. But it's something I'm not capable of - with how shy I am and the issues I have with people regarding trust, I'm not really capable of casual anything. And I don't want to feel like I'm being used just for sex - and already having that bond there, already having the trust in a person - prevents that a lot.

So basically, "making love" is better than "having sex." I can cosign that. I got no problem with meaningless sex, but there's a reason it's usually prefaced with "meaningless." It's just not as fulfilling.

Originally posted by DigiMark007
So basically, "making love" is better than "having sex." I can cosign that. I got no problem with meaningless sex, but there's a reason it's usually prefaced with "meaningless." It's just not as fulfilling.

its true. specially the last sentence.

I just want my 1st to be special and mean something...
then I'll probably become a sex addict getting it wherever and whenever I can.

awesome