Eternal Idol
Lono, "The Dog"
No, I see your point, Jinzin. I'm just trying to look at this as realistically as you possibly could if these characters did indeed exist in the real world. I like comics, but I haven't actually read a whole lot, so take my stance on these things with a grain of salt.
Skill alone can get you past other factors such as size and strength, but there comes a point where it's not enough to see you through a fight who's that much faster and stronger than you. For example, a dude like Bob Sapp isn't by any stretch one of the world's greatest fighters, but he's a contender because he can simply overpower his opponents. True, he's been beaten at least once by smaller, more skilled fighters, but I don't think that would've been the case if the big bastard were even a bit quicker than them.
You're probably right about peak humans not being that much slower than Spider-Man, but he would still have the ability to get in more hits. And though he doesn't have the technique to maximize the power behind those hits, his own natural power is devastating in comparison to what we've seen from peak human characters. On the other hand, if we apply what they've been shown to stand up to on-panel to a real-world scenario, then you're right about them being able to take it.
Agree to disagree?
Crap.... I forgot what the original debate topic was 'til I saw the header. 😕