Dating Ideas

haermm

http://www.xscape.co.uk/snow/braehead/

that is where I am taking a girl this saturday.😄

there is so much to do there.

Bowling, Movies, Rock Climbing, Snowboarding, restaraunts and such 😄

that looks ****ing awesome! how come we never went there when me and you were going out? crackers

The girl will be to tired to put out doin all that shit.

Originally posted by ~Wålshy~
that looks ****ing awesome! how come we never went there when me and you were going out? crackers

cause you wanted me to go down to the canal and with you and stab holes in dead bodies, so they would sink to the bottom of the water😐

you and your murdering on first dates, it is not an attractive quality 😐

Originally posted by McLovin
The girl will be to tired to put out doin all that shit.

I kinda like this girl, so I am gonna take it slow(ish)😆

plus she is really really hot so don't want to risk scaring her off 😆

Originally posted by ScarletSpeed
http://www.xscape.co.uk/snow/braehead/

that is where I am taking a girl this saturday.😄

there is so much to do there.

Bowling, Movies, Rock Climbing, Snowboarding, restaraunts and such 😄

That place pwns. Wish I lived in the UK to go there.

Originally posted by ScarletSpeed
plus she is really really hot so don't want to risk scaring her off 😆

i Dunno dude. Those are the ones who wake up at some point and figure out they could be with anyone. Be the "nice guy" too long and she'll leave you for a stupid black guy that she went on an activist trip with, and said they were just friends and there was nothing going on but you kinda knew it was a lie and she was at least thinking about it even though you trusted her not to do anything, but then when she breaks up with you as soon as they get back you're like "f*ck" and cry for a few months.

😐

So in other words, tell her you're fine with taking it slow. Then nail it on the third date.

313

Originally posted by ScarletSpeed
cause you wanted me to go down to the canal and with you and stab holes in dead bodies, so they would sink to the bottom of the water😐

you and your murdering on first dates, it is not an attractive quality 😐

I kinda like this girl, so I am gonna take it slow(ish)😆

plus she is really really hot so don't want to risk scaring her off 😆

Originally posted by DigiMark007
That place pwns. Wish I lived in the UK to go there.

i Dunno dude. Those are the ones who wake up at some point and figure out they could be with anyone. Be the "nice guy" too long and she'll leave you for a stupid black guy that she went on an activist trip with, and said they were just friends and there was nothing going on but you kinda knew it was a lie and she was at least thinking about it even though you trusted her not to do anything, but then when she breaks up with you as soon as they get back you're like "f*ck" and cry for a few months.

😐

So in other words, tell her you're fine with taking it slow. Then nail it on the third date.

313

haermmjockey

Whatever number we're up to: Smart guys don't go on dates, don't call it a date or set it up as one.

If you want to get close to a girl, the first and ultimate rule is to make sure you are both totally at ease. The worst thing you can possibly do is set up this gigantic mental notion that you're both doing on a date, because that comes with a whole lot of stigma, protocol and expectation, most of which neither of you probably want.

Just ask her to hang out, then take her out somewhere she you think would be good.

-AC

Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
Whatever number we're up to: Smart guys don't go on dates, don't call it a date or set it up as one.

If you want to get close to a girl, the first and ultimate rule is to make sure you are both totally at ease. The worst thing you can possibly do is set up this gigantic mental notion that you're both going on a date, because that comes with a whole lot of stigma, protocol and expectation, most of which neither of you probably want.

Just ask her to hang out, then take her out somewhere she you think would be good.

-AC

Originally posted by ScarletSpeed
cause you wanted me to go down to the canal and with you and stab holes in dead bodies, so they would sink to the bottom of the water😐

you and your murdering on first dates, it is not an attractive quality 😐

I kinda like this girl, so I am gonna take it slow(ish)😆

plus she is really really hot so don't want to risk scaring her off 😆

Originally posted by ~Wålshy~
Fixed. biscuits

Congrats. You corrected a minor (And admittedly rare) typo.

How do you feel about this? *Holds microphone to you*.

No, everyone shh. Go on, son.

-AC

Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
Congrats. You corrected a minor (And admittedly rare) typo.

How do you feel about this? *Holds microphone to you*.

No, everyone shh. Go on, son.

-AC

All you need to get to know a girl is to talk. There are, however, some ways that are better than others that help her become more comfortable.

Originally posted by DigiMark007
That place pwns. Wish I lived in the UK to go there.

i Dunno dude. Those are the ones who wake up at some point and figure out they could be with anyone. Be the "nice guy" too long and she'll leave you for a stupid black guy that she went on an activist trip with, and said they were just friends and there was nothing going on but you kinda knew it was a lie and she was at least thinking about it even though you trusted her not to do anything, but then when she breaks up with you as soon as they get back you're like "f*ck" and cry for a few months.

😐

So in other words, tell her you're fine with taking it slow. Then nail it on the third date.

313

😂...yeah dude, I'm in no way a pussy 😆, just don't want her thinking I am after one thing...like I usually am 😂.

I reckon I will probably end up doing it on the 2nd or 3rd date anyways, especially cause she keeps asking to come down to my house, but I have been working late recently, so tis not possible, until saturday. 😂

Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
Whatever number we're up to: Smart guys don't go on dates, don't call it a date or set it up as one.

If you want to get close to a girl, the first and ultimate rule is to make sure you are both totally at ease. The worst thing you can possibly do is set up this gigantic mental notion that you're both doing on a date, because that comes with a whole lot of stigma, protocol and expectation, most of which neither of you probably want.

Just ask her to hang out, then take her out somewhere she you think would be good.

-AC

Never thought about it that way. Everytime I take a girl out, I always...take them out 😂. but it always results in me getting bored with her anyways, so maybe you are right, and she should just come to my house and watch a movie or something.

also saves a shitload of money 😐

Cheers AC🙂

Originally posted by ScarletSpeed

Never thought about it that way. Everytime I take a girl out, I always...take them out 😂. but it always results in me getting bored with her anyways, so maybe you are right, and she should just come to my house and watch a movie or something.

also saves a shitload of money 😐

Cheers AC🙂

Originally posted by ScarletSpeed
😂...yeah dude, I'm in no way a pussy 😆, just don't want her thinking I am after one thing...like I usually am 😂.

I reckon I will probably end up doing it on the 2nd or 3rd date anyways, especially cause she keeps asking to come down to my house, but I have been working late recently, so tis not possible, until saturday. 😂

Never thought about it that way. Everytime I take a girl out, I always...take them out 😂. but it always results in me getting bored with her anyways, so maybe you are right, and she should just come to my house and watch a movie or something.

also saves a shitload of money 😐

Cheers AC🙂

No problem. Nobody is saying you shouldn't take her anywhere, just saying that you don't have to, and she can have a great time with you without it being a date. Officially making it a date doesn't make it better or anything.

She won't think you're a cheapass if she's not in it for the glamour, and is in it for the man, like a real woman.

-AC

Originally posted by DigiMark007
K, so I fall back on "dinner & movie" a lot, like most people do, and I generally enjoy that. However, I like to have as many ideas as possible for more special occasions, or just to do something different every now and then.

The following is my "date list" and anyone can feel free to add to it, or revise them. With luck I'll give people an idea or two, and vice-versa.

1. Movie (Har!)
2. Dinner
3. Picnic
4. Stargazing
5. Park Walks
7. Regular Shopping (I like to play a game where each has to buy an article of clothing for the other, and the other person can't object or have any input).
8. Sledding (winter only)
9. Amusement Parks
10. Concerts (classical, rock, or otherwise)
11. lolrape
13. Cook for her (or cook together)
14. Putt-Putt
15. Bowling
17. Visit a nearby city for various things
19. Jet-ski, waterski, etc. (near water only)
21. Dancing (at a club, swing dancing, or just by yourself)
22. Camping (for real or just in backyard)
23. Play-fight (pillow fight, water fight, etc.)
24. Celebrate strange anniversaries (that day your pants fell down in public, etc.)
25. Write her a song or poetry (?)
26. Golfing/Tennis/Jogging/Biking/other sports
27. Make Pottery (we have a place that lets you make your own near here)

....numbers are out of order because I'm lazy and had to remove some because they're specific to my area of the country.

But then again, I like to cook.

Yeah RJ...Screw you you shallow ******* 😠 😂

Thanks again AC, maybe just watch a movie then if it feels right, I will take her out and spend about 200 quid on a stupid amusement park 😆

Originally posted by Strangelove
I think #13 sounds very romantic, for some odd reason.

But then again, I like to cook.

I love the idea of cooking, but hate actually putting in the work. I also think I'm a better chef than I actually am, then "improv" and screw up a lot of stuff.

But yeah, it can be fun.