Should married people be allowed to sleep with other people?

Originally posted by screwtheroses
Different strokes for different folks...

If i am in a relationship with someone sorry but i won't share...he wants something else pack your bags and move on,but i won't judge others if they are both happy about the situation.

My opinion is its dumb to hold everyone by the same standard. Its no ones business but their own if they choose to live in an open marriage.
To each their own.

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
I'm not judging, just saying I wouldn't be able to share my lady with another guy.

Like i couldn't share my man......but what others do it is their choice,either break or make their marriage....who knows

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
I'm not judging, just saying I wouldn't be able to share my lady with another guy.

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
I'm sorry, I gotta be honest, that's LAME. IMO, that is.

....is judging silly goose. 😛

Originally posted by Ms Chelle
Calling someone or something LAME like this..

....is judging silly goose. 😛

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
No. Let's say you were my friend, and you had an open mariage. I wouldn't "judge" you, I wouldn't shun you, but if you asked me my opinion of it, I would tell you it's lame. You would still be my friend, I would just think you have a lame marriage.

Originally posted by Ms Chelle
I understand what you are trying to say but to me when you call something lame... its judging... Im not saying you would be calling me (your friend) lame... just my actions... either way its judging. Otherwise you would be indifferent and have no opinion at all about it.

On the same token, it would be judging to say it was fine, too.

Originally posted by dadudemon
On the same token, it would be judging to say it was fine, too.

Originally posted by Ms Chelle
Very true.

Yup. We are very judgmental creatures, us humans. That's a good thing, sometimes. It prevents our loved ones from getting harmed sometimes.

Nothing wrong with being judgmental in some areas. Id be wary of someone who was indifferent to every aspect of life.

Originally posted by Ms Chelle
Nothing wrong with being judgmental in some areas. Id be wary of someone who was indifferent to every aspect of life.

Indeed.

THEY ARE DROIDS!!! Run fer da hillz!

$hit happens?

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
I'm sorry, I gotta be honest, that's LAME. IMO, that is.

He has to be some kind of husband if he ABSOLUTELY has to have sex that week. Back in my day we had something called patience.

well in my day we had something called horny..it went both ways...dev

I checked with my wife...she said no.

Damnit!

(Also, JD, I love your Sig pic.)

Originally posted by Bada's Palin
He has to be some kind of husband if he ABSOLUTELY has to have sex that week. Back in my day we had something called patience.

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
or masturbation.

bates doesn't cut it, imo.

it has to be women flesh (usually alive)

First, I don't really believe in 'marriage'. Second, no matter the level of the relationship you are in; be it a high school fling or something that falls under the catagory of 'marriage'; I believe it is wrong to cheat on someone. Not for really any high and mighty moral reason. Just simply that it seems wrong to me.

Originally posted by BigRed
First, I don't really believe in 'marriage'. Second, no matter the level of the relationship you are in; be it a high school fling or something that falls under the catagory of 'marriage'; I believe it is wrong to cheat on someone. Not for really any high and mighty moral reason. Just simply that it seems wrong to me.

But............it's not cheating if both parties agree to it, now is it?

Originally posted by dadudemon
But............it's not cheating if both parties agree to it, now is it?