Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
Why would someone wanna rate the rack of others here? Why would someone wanna kiss the person above them here? Why would someone wanna post a pic of themselves here? It's entertainment, pure and simple. It's all in good fun.If anyone needs to look at what they are posting and say "WTF man,", it's you. People post in bullshit threads like this one because it's fun, but you feel the need to come and scold us. Doesn't matter if someone is 20, 30, 40 or 50, people DO like to have fun. Not EVERYONE signs onto the net to be an arrogant know it all, you know.
I know that, but the point is, I can understand why that would be fun to 16 year olds. Also, nobody wants to "rate" anyone's rack. It's an excuse for the guys of this forum to look at the racks of the chicks on this forum. Let's not be naive. I don't have a problem with the threads, I simply don't understand why certain older members act with no discernable difference to those who aren't old enough to realise it's a bit silly, that's all. Just my opinion.
However, how did I somehow know that, despite me civilly asking you a question, you would go on the defensive because, somehow, you're ashamed? Someone even said to me, on MSN as I replied, "Think you'll get an answer from RJ?", and I said "Probably, but he'll be on the defensive, despite there being no reason for him to be, unless he's ashamed.", and look, it happened.
I didn't come here to scold anyone, if you are subconsciously ashamed of the way you are, I'm sorry. I was civilly asking you for an explanation and you went on the defensive. Says a lot.
It's not about getting over anyone's self or you HAVING to explain yourself. I simply asked if you would, and you chose to be irrationally defensive. I have no personal problems with you, not in the least, so don't take it as that.
I just find it to be a gigantic excuse, on your part. "You're as old as you feel.", yeah. That works for maybe indulging a little childhood interest now and then. Not being a near 40 year old man acting like a frat boy on a messageboard. I know you hate having your age brought into it, but seriously, there comes a time when you can't actually write off that you're middle-aged and acting like you do as "I just like having fun.", because there's a line. I'd say that I don't look any worse for being perceived as "serious", as you do for openly being immature and admitting it.
You're not hurting anyone, and I'll defend your right to act as you wish because of it, but you have to understand that there are reasons that leave you massively open to criticism, and people will thusly criticise. Not saying you're right OR wrong, just saying. Maybe stop pointing fingers at everyone telling them to lighten up, simply because the fact that you're 38/39 going on 18 is creeping up on you and making you feel a bit shit.
Just my two cents. Nothing meant as offensive here, I have no issue with you negatively or personally with any real severity, I'm just giving my opinion as I have the right to.
-AC