Originally posted by Scribble
Learning not to worry is difficult for me. I know I said that I like being an emotional person, but learning to dial it down would be nice and probably help me be more productive, since I'm often kept up by recurring thoughts and shit like that, which just gets irritating after a while. I've tried not giving a damn before though and it's tough. I guess it comes with time
certain life events are going to cause problems but other than the occasional illness what is worth stressing?
money? you can fix that
girlfriend? let her go. you are only living your life
family? if they cause you problems then don't talk to them
illness? you'll get through it
people talking crap about you? who cares. they are no better than you
just name one thing you worry about. stress is not going to solve it
Originally posted by Bashar Teg
are you sure you're some studdly guy, because you really come off as the 'incel' type right there.
I don't know if I'm studly. I don't know what incel is either.
what did I say that was weird? why fret over another person? sex? that's easy to get.
I'm just saying that you dictate what you allow in your life
Originally posted by RaisenIt's true, it's just getting to that point that I find tough. My mind is a shit and enjoys thinking of all the bad things, especially the things that I can't do anything about. It's probably just that I haven't lived enough yet, I think you need a fair bit of life experience to get to that stage. Not even age, just life experience, I imagine some people can get there by the age I'm at, but my life hasn't been majorly interesting so far
certain life events are going to cause problems but other than the occasional illness what is worth stressing?money? you can fix that
girlfriend? let her go. you are only living your life
family? if they cause you problems then don't talk to them
illness? you'll get through it
people talking crap about you? who cares. they are no better than youjust name one thing you worry about. stress is not going to solve it
One day though, one day
Originally posted by Raisen
I don't know if I'm studly. I don't know what incel is either.
what did I say that was weird? why fret over another person? sex? that's easy to get.
I'm just saying that you dictate what you allow in your life
'incel' means involuntarily celibate. as in your penis remains dry not by choice but by circumstance.
Originally posted by Scribble
It's true, it's just getting to that point that I find tough. My mind is a shit and enjoys thinking of all the bad things, especially the things that I can't do anything about. It's probably just that I haven't lived enough yet, I think you need a fair bit of life experience to get to that stage. Not even age, just life experience, I imagine some people can get there by the age I'm at, but my life hasn't been majorly interesting so farOne day though, one day
it's hard for young men. so many expectations and a lot of confusion. it gets better when you learn not to give a damn.