Look, I'm a conservative at heart. I believe in slow progress and tried and true methods. But I can recognise that my body and personality are better suited to the female side of human existence, and I could easily transition in such a way that most people couldn't tell. But that would be selling myself short. I've gained a certain perspective as a nearly 30-yo male, and I'm okay with that. Life is complex. As long as doctors know I'm male, what's the issue?
Originally posted by Wonder ManI agree, and I'm saving my own soul here. Jesus will understand because I love him.
I think you feel like the world wants answers when Jesus said I can sum up the law with one question. Save a life. Is it better to do so or not?
When you want your own outlook to life to be like everyone else is a beautiful soul in your inner eye.
Trust that soul forever.
Originally posted by Scribble
I get it, it's confusing. But basically I'm gonna kind of do both - in a social sense, I'm going to dress and act female as much as possible, which is more in keeping with my personality, but in a professional sense stay male. So with close friends and family be my female self, my more 'true' self, but for now keep my male self in a professional sense, where I stay my suit-wearing male self. I work in education, so I don't want my female self to invade educational politics for now.By me wearing drag, I mean that I feel like I wear drag every day - I pretend to be male in an overt way, I wear male clothing and act male despite the social gender I more closely identify with.
I'd rather just be a woman - but I wasn't born that way, and I didn't grow up that way, so I'm not just going to profess that I am, as women are more than just what they feel they are.
Does that help? Pls ask more of needed because I'm trying to figure this out too.
What do you consider to be "acting female"? How does your behavior change?
You say you like being a physical man, but women have boobs so what do you do about that when you dress as a woman?
EDIT: Also are you attracted to women and if so do you consider yourself a lesbian? If you're attracted to men, do you consider yourself gay or a heterosexual woman?