new deal with my gf

I am going to have to agree with most of the others, except for one minor detail. If you really do care for this girl, love her even, then make this clear to her. You want her to be happy, and you'd do almost anything for her, but that you refuse to be walked on, or taken advatage of. This will serve two purposes:

1) Let her know exactly how you feel
2)Also remove any doubt in her mind of your willingness to lay down to play door mat.

Most likely though, more than she is testing you, she is testing herself. She needs to find out what she really wants before anything else. Good luck, and if the situation indeed calls for you to get away from her, then I hope you see it soon enough to get clear without callateral damage.

I think its time for you to find another squeeze bf.

she says deep down she thinks she'd be happiest with me, but she wants to try it out with this guy, so i am making her choose, i really dont care either way. its her loss, not mine.

right on

Sounds like 'The Grass is always greener.' syndrome....

BTW, it never usually is.

nah my grass is greener than my neighbour

you have a green neighbour?

hehe

yes he is from Florø

no green men here!

Backfire, if you want you can tell me to fuck off! But forget about her right now! Say she chooses you.... what then? Chances are she'll fuck about with your life again!

Fair enough I don't know the girl and I have no right to judge her, but I was in your position about 6 months ago and the other thing I learnt from it is 'they fuck you the first time and they'll fuck you again'.

I don't someone else to suffer the way I did!

Originally posted by mah
no green men here!

*discriminated tone*
oh..i get it....it's because i'm green isn't it?

Good point actually..

Yeah Bad Boy is right.

Say she does decide to be with you and only you.
What's going to happen a couple of months down the road when she finds another potential boyfriend. She will probably pull the same crap all over again.

This 'choosing' business is a bunch of crap.
She is obviously not satisfied with you, and for that reason alone, you should cut your strings to her and move on!

I would never put up with crap like that. I respect myself too much as a person to allow my girlfriend to play e knee my knee moe with our relationship.

well it looks like BF have made up his mind about the issue so...........

.........thread closure imminent?

How about my opinion.??????

how about NO, or are do you have an opinion based on experience?????????????? 😄😄

What so funny??.......may be I have

back fire. save this conversation, change the names, make it look a little more melodramatic and a bit less related to her, print it and show it to her.
Make it like a:
"hey...looki what i found on the net!"
🙂