I'm definitely allowed an opinion on anything I choose, Hiker.
You obviously subscribe to the mythical premise that only dads have the supreme knowledge of parenting and nobody else has a clue. What a load of sh*t. I know lots of dads and I know lots of parents.
You do not need to have kids to know what it takes to be a good parent to some degree. I'll give whatever advice I choose. He can ignore it.
Originally posted by dadudemon
I guess all that time I put into MMA was something I didn't mean, right?
You tell me, Mr. Trollington.
Originally posted by dadudemon
Who said or implied anything about fantasizing about that lifestyle? Another mischaracterization. Tsk tsk. For shame.
You didn't have to say it, you present yourself in such a manner. You have a love of fighting and of hurting another human being. You have said it is a great feeling to knock someone out. Yet, conversely, you say you haven't fought since you were 17, you refer to 21 as a past age. By that token you haven't fought for at least four or five years, so to be still so enamoured with the lifestyle of things like Fight Club? Yeah, fantasising.
Originally posted by dadudemon
So, a street fight that can get me put in jail is the same thing as an MMA fight, right?
It doesn't matter where the fight is waged. It doesn't matter if someone is shooting innocent bystanders or shooting terrorists in a war; if you get thrills from firing guns at people, you're a nutjob. Cage or street; if your aim is to hurt the other person and that's what gives you a "great feeling", you're a thug and a moron.
I doubt Fedor Emilianenko fights people cos he gets a kick out of hurting them like some crazed street thug.
Originally posted by dadudemon
Of course, you wouldn't know the first thing about fighting, though, would you?
I have a lot of experience in martial arts. Many, many years. I don't consider it something to spend my time bragging about or crowbarring into every conversation like some kind of penis-less, over-compensatory fool.
It's not important to anyone else, nor is it necessary for anyone to know. I do it because it keeps me fit, I enjoy it and I appreciate the disciplines. That's as far as I need go. I know enough to know you're an idiot about it.
Originally posted by dadudemon
And, I most certainly didn't follow through on a dumb obsession. 😉
Because you know it's a dumb obsession.
Originally posted by dadudemon
Just for clarification, you can't regurgitate my same points that were made in my OP and then pretend as if they are yours.
Would be relevant if that's what I was doing.
Originally posted by dadudemon
You're far from qualified to make a statement like that.And, what pisses me off is far less than what pisses most people off.
You know, some things push my buttons. Yelling at the top of your lungs while cursing my out in front of my professors, while throwing physical threats at me, is certainly a way to press my buttons: immature or not.
I'm perfectly qualified to make an observatory statement. Not sure why you'd claim I'm not.
I don't want to fight every time I get pissed off. I simply wouldn't be able to get through the day. Part of being disciplined in any martial art is knowing precisely when not to fight; any time that isn't absolutely necessary.
I'm not sure who taught you, but they obviously skipped that.
Originally posted by dadudemon
You certainly shouldn't be giving out advice on how to raise children.
I'll give advice on whatever I want. If my points are credible and sensible, it doesn't matter who has kids and who doesn't. Plenty of parents haven't got a first clue on how to raise them; having kids doesn't entitle you to be void of criticism.
Originally posted by dadudemon
And, I already teach my son to not tolerate physical abuse from anyone. That includes hitting back. I haven't taught him that fighting is fun as that isn't something you can teach, it's something you like or don't like...or learn. Guess the only way you can find out?
So, if your son thinks fighting is awesome; begins getting into fights in school and such, you're not going to tell him it isn't cool to do that, or are you?
Originally posted by dadudemon
I'll tell ya:If and when my son gets scared at night because of a bad dream or something that went bump in the night, he asks for me. 😐 His uncle, my brother, asked him why, one day. My son's response, "Because my daddy can beat up the bad mans and kill the monsters and save me."
Yeah, there's a difference between fatherly protection; using fighting for defense (SHOCK! MY POINT ALL ALONG!), and using it as a means to get a boner or get thrills.
Obviously this is lost on you.
Originally posted by dadudemon
I guess you don't know the first thing about children.
Typical, old-man, bullsh*t rhetoric; "You don't know about kids if you ain't got them.".
As I said to Hiker, there are plenty of ways to learn about something and be well educated on the subject without actually being involved in it. I am not denying there are aspects to parenting you do not experience until or IF you are one. However, this does not mean anyone without a kid has a void opinion on parenting, and you're stupid if you think otherwise.
The only ones who'll agree with you are parents with the same jaded mindset.
Originally posted by dadudemon
Your child needs to know that you'll stick up for him or her. They need that security, especially when they get older.
Yeah, remember; this is a debate about fighting being something you use out of necessity, not fun or thuggish obsession. I never once said "Don't use it to protect loved ones.".
Originally posted by dadudemon
And, yes, fighting can be an excellent way to settle things, especially if handled like gentlemen. (Like, going outside, knowing that below the belt and biting off flesh is unnacceptable, ending the fight when the other one gives or yields, etc. These are understood rules...not all people adhere to them, and Mr. Grumpy Pants doesn't seem like one of those.)
Don't be such a damned hypocrite. You sound like a cowardly war general sending men into battle.
Rules to a street fight? It's a street fight; fight it to win or don't fight it at all. This proves your delusional fantasising about fights; you feel fights are some kind of honourable man-sport, even in unsanctioned areas. Be a gentleman? YOU don't know the first thing about street fighting, if that's your opinion on it. The point of street fighting is to come away better off than the other guy, that's the fact. If you are twice my size and twice as strong, I'm not going to abide by your rules for the sake of earning anyone's respect. You do what you can to overcome your opponent; save the code of conduct for sanctioned sports.
Typical boyish nonsense. Fighting isn't honourable unless it's sporting. Street fights have no rules, there is no "be a gentleman". Fight it or don't.
Originally posted by dadudemon
Umm...ditto?But some think this is a waste of time and brain power. Just sayin'.
Your posts are more like, "WHERE'Z SOMEONE TO ARGUE WITH! I'M AN INTERNET BULLY WHO THINKGS I'M RIGHT ABOUT EVERYTHING! RAWR! WHERE'S TEH NEWBZ!"
Yet, we both know those characterizations are not quite accurate.
Except mine is, and yours is just a textual mirroring of me typing in caps.
I love it when people keep accusing me of thinking I'm right about everything instead of just proving me wrong. You'd think they'd do that if it was that easy. They don't, and neither do you, because you can't.
You're just a troll who trolls for fun.
Originally posted by dadudemon
Street fight. Yes. 😐 I guess that wasn't obvious...but a little bit of deductive reasoning would have quickly lead to that conclusion. How could I continue with MMA, be quite good, be out of highschool, and still be younger than 17 when my Birthday is in June? There's always the option that I got passed up a grade...but I highly doubt you'd assume that about me. Am I right?I've fought MANY times since I was 18. There were in controlled environments...and weren't spur of the moment street fights.
Drop the paper-premise of "They were controlled.". If they weren't sanctioned fights, they were bullsh*t. Don't continue using that nonsense rhetoric of "Fighting is honourable if you do it like a gentleman!".
If you get into a street fight, which is what most fights tend to be; your aim is to defend yourself and overcome your opponent enough to either stop the fight or escape. Don't bring rules and then call the other guy a p*ssy when he doesn't abide by them; that's what YOUR kind of "man" does.
"Man, I'd have kicked that guy's ass if he didn't brick me over the head!". Yeah? Come prepared next time then.
To quote Doug Stanhope:
"How do you make rules to war? It's a war. Fight it or leave, *****.".
Originally posted by dadudemon
AC, is that your idea of mental stimuli?...troling teh internetz?
1) No.
2) This implies you find trolling to be pathetic, as do I. In that case, why admit to me multiple times, and others it seems, that you are a troll? That you enjoy trolling?
Hmm. "Think > Post", dude. Not "Post > Think".
-AC