i think your getting some horrible advice and at least very bias advice from a particular poster who seems cold as ice..
you talking to her online was your problem. you should have bn making dates and hanging out with her whenever the chance arose. her going back to her ex boyfriend isnt that out of the norm nor a woman dating a complete scrawly punk.
women always make mistakes same as men you cant get hung up on the why's and why not me.. i can tell you from personal experience its better to go with women in your own social class group that know who you are and where your coming from then you ignore them and chase some romanticize ideal version of what you think you want.
i can tell you from my experience what i did.. i quit my chose career made the girl's job and living situation hell through my friend connections and my job position. i saw her for what the girl really was a lying two face b$#$#... i then went on sabbatical for the past yr and a half drinking and using drugs clubbing and whoring and spending my life saving since i no longer saw the point of having it..
and i realized its better to be around my own social group then to lower my standards for a girl that to be honest i wouldnt have gone after had we not gotten to know each other 1st.. only reason i even gave her the time of day to begin with and help build something was b/c of working area had that not bn there i would have gaffed her off nor given her a second glance.
so advice.. drink, recreational drugs change settings.. maybe work out and go after the girls that go after you so long as they are attractive
AAAAAGGHHH! I can't get her out of my mind! We called each other husband wife, I called her, she called me! She texted me when I was asleep calling me her husband. But then she got a boyfriend, I overloaded and now we're not friends. Now I probably don't mean shit to her and she's in love with somebody else.
Originally posted by steverules_2unless your named after a fruit your not the one i was referring to..
I'm not cold as ice you are!!!!!11111 uhuh
oh.. also sleep with the girls in her work section.. that made me feel a lil better but then sad b/c i took advantage of them and one of them actually saw me as some kind of god and her ideal man.. which i was but i was going through a hard time and instead of being the kind sincere nice guy that i was i instead was the cocky manwhore that i was in my youth..
Originally posted by MasterMyOwnMind
AAAAAGGHHH! I can't get her out of my mind! We called each other husband wife, I called her, she called me! She texted me when I was asleep calling me her husband. But then she got a boyfriend, I overloaded and now we're not friends. Now I probably don't mean shit to her and she's in love with somebody else.
Dude, more on.