Two videos, both with different points:
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Obviously this is tongue-in-cheek, but it has a point to make. But here's my thing with it: arguments like these, be they videos or written, tend to be dismissed with a wave of the hand because of their tone. But my question is, why? Second, the inconsistencies and brutalities of the Bible are also well-known, yet equally dismissed. Again, why? Why aren't we constantly demanding answers for each of these, the supposed Word of God. Historical or metaphoric context be damned, what the hell is the Word of God doing saying ANYTHING that could lead to believing slavery is acceptable (or any of the other atrocities). And if you choose to ignore it, as most Christians rightly do, what is it doing there? Why is it left like a time-bomb for literalists to abuse?
This, to me, is one of the least used arguments relative to its merit. Why is the holiest of books arguably worse to read from a moral perspective than a bullsh*t self-help book on the cheap shelves at Barnes & Noble?
And since this example is Bible-only, the same questions can be applied to pretty much any holy text in modern monotheistic religion.
Video 2:
YouTube video
Again, the disclaimers, so that we're not mired in things that miss the point:
- I don't like purpose of the video, which paints religion with too broad a brush.
- Yes, these are case studies, nothing more.
Now the relevant points:
- What your parents are is, overwhelmingly, the most likely factor in determining your religion. Don't rebut with your personal story - I'm an exception too - we're dealing with statistical likelihood.
- Many faiths do explicitly target children, either consciously, or it is passively built into their model of practices and messages. It's a very good business model. And chances are if you don't have a way to bring children in (through a school or Sunday school program, activities, programs, etc.) you won't last long. In any devoutly religious community or church, it's easy to see how the religion becomes infused into aspects of one's life other than the weekly hour-long service (or similar observance).
Now, the question:
Is it acceptable to indoctrinate a child into any religious belief? This includes atheism; I'm not holding my beliefs to a different standard. Because, make no mistake, raising a child as any religion is indeed indoctrination. They don't possess the critical faculties to believe otherwise until they're much older.
The potentially defensible religious argument I can see here is that the child's immortal soul is more important than their freedom to choose their own religious path. Don't want the Devil intervening or something, etc. etc. To me, though, it seems like stripping them of their ability to choose...or at least weighting the decision heavily in one direction.
I have a friend whose family is a perfect case study for this. Parents are atheist/agnostic, respectively. Never raised to be anything, but encouraged to explore and think thoroughly about options and questions. A good approach, imo. Both sons experienced heavy criticism for their lack of belief in a particular brand of Christianity (this is in the northeast, not south or midwest). Several religious parents caught wind of it and actually tried to start to talk both sons into religion, to go along with the peer pressure of being in the minority without stated beliefs. My friend thrived on the adversity, and is one of the best atheist debaters I know. His brother is now Catholic, having been uncomfortable with being ostricized and eventually exploring religion. He may have other reasons, and is an intelligent adult now as well, but this is what I've gleaned from talks with my friend.
I think we can all agree that the pressure was wrong. From what I know, my friend's parents fought against it, rightly so, but there's only so much one's parents can protect you when, for example, you're subjected to chants of "YOU'RE GOING TO HELL!" on the playground. Whether or not the brother was subjected to this, I don't know, but my friend definitely was.
Once I hear such stories, a PSA-style outcry like this video almost seems tame to me, because the whole system is borked. We can rail again the individuals and not the religion all we want, but no one can argue that the norm in our society promotes exploration among faiths or anything but adherence to what you've been taught. As long as "We think our beliefs are the right ones, and raising your children to believe them, and to espouse them to others, is the correct approach," as long as that goes unchallenged, nothing will change.