Originally posted by Bardock42
Thisis not the same as this
The first (Man will have sex with woman that wants to have sex and had a few drinks) is perfectly fine
The second (Man will fill woman up with alcohol beyond her capabilities to still make decisions with the sole intention to have sex with her) is indeed douche-y and bordering on rape.
It's definitely an issue of intent, severity and consent, I'd say.
In my eyes, it is the same. Here's why:
I'm referring to the gal (one of them used to post here, frequently) that will not give a dude the time of day unless you buy them drinks and the guy that looks for a gal that is looking to get wasted and preys upon her. You may think it is a match made in heaven, but it is not: the dude is a douche and the gal is a cheap idiot.
In other words, I was talking about what you saw as two different things. In context, that should have been clear.
Edit - No, that's not what I meant, originally. I just reread what I posted the first time. I do not understand what my question was about when I replied to Sancty the first time. I was thinking of this Mexican lady that wanted to hang out with me only if I was buying the drinks. When I would tell her no, she would act all cold. I hated that. I ran into a type like that lady, a couple years later. I dropped her like a bad habit as I did not want to be part of that...I strongly dislike drunk chicks.
Even more so, I hate the douchebag that preys upon that type of girl.
Originally posted by Sancty
And you dislike women that put out after a few drinks?
Absolutely. It is one of the grossest things a girl can do, imo. It is a major turn off. There's no fun in it (I like the idea that both parties are fully coherent and want to get it on...that's just much sexier to me), they stink, could vomit (I have witnessed the "make-out, stop a few moments, the chick/dude pukes very shortly thereafter" scenario on more than one occasion), are almost classless at that point, and it is hard to carry a good conversation with them.