Originally posted by Darth Truculent
We both went to a very and I mean very expensive private school. She ran out of money and her parents were a "stand on your own two feet" type. She told me what she was going to do and I said it's a bad idea, but like you said the money was fast. She got a temporary contract and then came the films. The first one she made was boy-girl and she thought 'okay if this is going to like this, then I can handle it, but then the real real hardcore stuff came. When her contract was up, they offered to re-new it, but she flat out refused.I just didn't like the way they exploited her. She's friggen hot, but now feels completely dirty. Her husband left her when he found out, but me and a few of my friends continue to stand by her side.
I don't wish to belittle the ordeal your friend went through but as you stated she was under contract ie: the contract would've stipulated what type of "scenes" she would've been involved in doing.
Also as you mentioned, she needed fast money. The more hardcore the scene, the more dollars she would've pocketed & this would've all be negotiated & agreed to prior to the actual filming. I mean a porn scene isn't going to sell if the porn star is clearly in tears or not "pretending" to enjoy herself.
Unfortunately people do things for money & sometimes regret it afterwards...but make no mistake she would've gotten paid alot for the few scenes she did.
Originally posted by Esau Cairn
Also as you mentioned, she needed fast money. The more hardcore the scene, the more dollars she would've pocketed & this would've all be negotiated & agreed to prior to the actual filming. I mean a porn scene isn't going to sell if the porn star is clearly in tears or not "pretending" to enjoy herself.
you are vastly underestimating the variety of pornography genres
Originally posted by Robtard
Only because it's perpetually covered in the darkest of dark poop.
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Best come back ever.
On the thread, as inimalist said, we have no conclusive data that people gravitate towards predatory sexual behavior due to porn. I'd say that it is impossible to say that no one doesn't because of porn. There's bound to be some people who do become deviants because of porn that otherwise would not have if they had not gotten consumed by porn.
I'd say that the vast majority of adults know which context to view porn. I'm wary of even viewing mature movies or clips around my children and I'm fairly liberal with what media I allow my children to be exposed to. So why wouldn't adults, more conservative than I, be more shrewd with their children?
Does porn make men sexist or were they sexist before viewing the porn? Where did it start?al;skdjf al;skfj ;lksjf a;lskjdf
That was a spasm because I just thought about that so thoroughly that I frustrated myself. **** that conversation.
Originally posted by dadudemon
On the thread, as inimalist said, we have no conclusive data that people gravitate towards predatory sexual behavior due to porn. I'd say that it is impossible to say that no one doesn't because of porn. There's bound to be some people who do become deviants because of porn that otherwise would not have if they had not gotten consumed by porn.
Maybe there's also someone who got cured of their deviancy because of porn shock
Originally posted by dadudemon
Does porn make men sexist or were they sexist before viewing the porn? Where did it start?al;skdjf al;skfj ;lksjf a;lskjdf
Not with porn. Most definitely not with porn.
My friend who did it for a semester basically isolated herself from society. She is so ashamed of what she did, that she goes day by day. She both hates and loves this song: http://youtu.be/CB6DVHhqZa4 because it reminds her of those terrible days. Her ex-husband and family won't talk to her. It is only me and a few friends who stand beside her.
She was asked to go back into the industry, but she refused. I'm glad she stuck to guns. But that semester, she threw away her morals and regrets her decision.
Originally posted by Darth Truculent
My friend who did it for a semester basically isolated herself from society. She is so ashamed of what she did, that she goes day by day. She both hates and loves this song: http://youtu.be/CB6DVHhqZa4 because it reminds her of those terrible days. Her ex-husband and family won't talk to her. It is only me and a few friends who stand beside her.She was asked to go back into the industry, but she refused. I'm glad she stuck to guns. But that semester, she threw away her morals and regrets her decision.
Tell her to get over it.
Originally posted by Darth Truculent
My friend who did it for a semester basically isolated herself from society. She is so ashamed of what she did, that she goes day by day. She both hates and loves this song: http://youtu.be/CB6DVHhqZa4 because it reminds her of those terrible days. Her ex-husband and family won't talk to her. It is only me and a few friends who stand beside her.She was asked to go back into the industry, but she refused. I'm glad she stuck to guns. But that semester, she threw away her morals and regrets her decision.
her family and friends are terrible people...
Originally posted by Darth Truculent
Easier said than done. It's the mental trauma that's destroys her. She used to love milk, but now she can't even stand the sight of it. It reminds of her of . . . well I told the moderator I'd keep this PG-13. PTSD is very difficult to manage.
Is it semen? Does it remind her of semen?
I am sure some porn actors and actresses also feel like they have no other option (forgetting those that actually don't have one cause they get forced, cause that's rape, and rape is bad), but even so that doesn't make porn inherently bad, I'm sure there's also people who feel they have no other option than to work in the local factory. The problem, as often, is the stigma attached to it, porn makes you feel worse than cutting up metals, because it is somehow perceived that a humans dignity is tied to their sexual "virtue" (in women mainly)